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4629 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Rick's Q & A Call on June 10	6/03/2013
	My affair was 20 years ago, do you have any suggestions on how I can remember the details?	5/20/2013
	As the unfaithful spouse, how can I improve my communication with my mate so I don't minimize or make excuses?	5/20/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on June 3	5/20/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on May 20	5/13/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on May 13	5/06/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on May 6	4/29/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on April 29	4/22/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on April 22	4/15/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on April 15	3/25/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on April 1	3/25/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on March 25	3/19/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on March 18	3/12/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on March 11	3/05/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on March 4	2/25/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on February 25	2/18/2013
	How do I reconcile who I thought my husband was for 15 years with the person who had the affair, to not see him as a horrible person?	2/11/2013
	Is it possible for my mate to have an affair with someone if they don't know what he's doing?	2/11/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on February 18	2/11/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on February 11	2/05/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on February 4	1/28/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 28	1/22/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 21	1/08/2013
	My wife is resentful toward me eventhough she's the one who had an affair, she feels she married the wrong person, what can I do?	1/08/2013
	Rick's Questions - January 21, 2013	1/08/2013
	Our families are unsupportive of our recovery process, how should we respond?	12/17/2012
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 7	12/17/2012
	I'm changed, but my husband can't forgive me, what should I do?	12/11/2012
	Rick's Q & A Call on December 17	12/11/2012