All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How to Survive Infidelity 4990 Resources Type Title Posted Is it normal for me to have more sexual desire for my mate as we go through this process? 11/23/2010 Is my mate telling me the truth about parts of his memory being blank when it comes to his pattern of acting out, is that possible? 11/23/2010 Are their other motivating factors besides sexual desire that can cause someone to act out sexually? 11/23/2010 How do the addictions of parents impact their children? 11/23/2010 I am finding that others in my life are now triggering the same feelings of betrayal that I experieced with my mate's betrayal, is that normal? 11/23/2010 What does God think about Facebook 11/23/2010 How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 11/18/2010 Can self-loathing serve as a motivating factor in sexual abuse? 11/16/2010 Do some people act out as a form of self punishment? 11/16/2010 How can I be sure my mate is done with his affair partner? 11/16/2010 Is it normal to feel triggered during the Holidays? 11/16/2010 Is it wrong for me to continue to want to process the affair even if my mate just wants to move on? 11/16/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on November 29 11/16/2010 What can I do to make the holidays bearable? 11/16/2010 Does blackmail ever play a role in a person's continuing an affair? 11/16/2010 How do I respond to my mate's failure to be totally truthful with me? 11/16/2010 I think I'm beginning to understand why my mate acted out 11/16/2010 Is something wrong with me if I still can't make a decision as to what to do a year after discovery? 11/16/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on November 15 11/09/2010 How do you respond to blackmail? 11/03/2010 How does recovery differ if my mate has had mutiple affairs versus a single affair? 11/02/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on November 8 11/02/2010 How do I move beyond the chaos created by my mate's relapse? What do I focus on? 11/02/2010 We Started Well, but... 10/20/2010 Should I be jealous if my wife seems to enjoy the company of others more than me? 10/19/2010 Am I normal if I'm having problems reconnecting at 6 months in recovery? 10/19/2010 What is some good reading for me and my mate while we're in recovery? 10/19/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on November 1 10/18/2010 Is it wrong to tell others about my parents and how they've impacted me and their role in my recovery? 10/18/2010 How does processing (for 50 weeks) what occured during the affair? 10/12/2010 If my mate still has questions after six months of recovery should I answer them and at what level of detail? 10/12/2010 What is "Brokenness"? 10/12/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on October 18 10/12/2010 I've lied to my wife for the past 11 months, how much detail do I give about what I've done? 10/12/2010 What do you do if your mate's views about marraige are off? 10/12/2010 How do you get the negative voices of friends out of your head? 9/27/2010 I relapsed and my mate has given up, how do I get them to come back? 9/27/2010 Is it safe to be around others people of the opposite who are in recovery? 9/27/2010 Is it wrong to beat my mate with scripture to show them what a sinner they are? 9/27/2010 Is marriage really supposed to make you miserable? 9/27/2010 What is powerlessness when it comes to an addiction and compulsion? 9/27/2010 When is it time to get a divorce? 9/27/2010 How do you respond if your mate isn't "all in"? 9/27/2010 How will I ever know if he really loves me or just doesn't have another option? 9/27/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on October 11 9/27/2010 I'm the hurt spouse, why did I have more sexual desire right after discovery then I do now? 9/27/2010 How do I get my mate to talk with me? 9/27/2010 My husband it being more affectionate after disclosure, is that normal? 9/14/2010 What is sexual anorexia? 9/14/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on September 27 9/13/2010 Pages« first‹ previous…9293949596979899100next ›last »
