All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 5047 Resources Type Title Posted We disagree on whether or not he has an addiction which makes me feel unsafe, what can we do? 10/03/2011 What's the avantage to getting help sooner rather than later after discovery? 10/03/2011 Will a hurt spouse heal if they just try to get over it? 10/03/2011 I'm a woman who cheated on her husband and I don't know how to find new passion for my mate, any suggestions? 9/30/2011 We just finished week 7 and I feel my mate is still defensive and doesn't get it, what can I do with my discouragement and how do I respond? 9/30/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on October 3 9/30/2011 If there is a limerant affair why would my husband have so much involvement with her family and intoduce them to my kids? 9/30/2011 Do you have any suggestions for couples that address sexual healing? 9/12/2011 How do you handle a stituation where your mate died and then you discovered they were being unfaithful? How do you deal with the betrayal when they are already gone? 9/12/2011 I'm the hurt spouse, is it wise to bring up choices my mate is makeing that really hurt me, or do I need to just suffer silently? 9/12/2011 If you're a sex addict when is it appropriate to have friends of the opposite sex? 9/12/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on September 19 9/12/2011 How do I deal with my wife's triggers? 8/29/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on September 12 8/29/2011 How does codependecy contribute to infidelty? 8/29/2011 What are some resources for the wife of a porn addict? 8/29/2011 I'm not in love with my mate, how can I ever get those feelings back again? My AP makes me feel ways my mate never has 8/29/2011 I'm wondering if my mate and I are compatible, when does one call it quits? 8/29/2011 Rick's Q & A call on August 29 8/22/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on August 22 8/02/2011 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 7/27/2011 I said I'd leave if my mate ever cheated on me, am I crazy for staying and trying to work things out? 7/22/2011 When is there too much hurt to reconcile? I can't even let my family know that we're talking, should he try to talk to them? 7/22/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on July 25 7/13/2011 The Definition of Freedom - Before and After an Affair 7/07/2011 Fifteen months after disclosure is it normal to still have emotional flooding and how do I get my husband to understand? 7/05/2011 What boudaries need to be set up at work? 7/05/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on July 11 6/28/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 27 6/20/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 20 6/13/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 13 6/06/2011 HH - Leslie and John Call - May 25, 2011 5/26/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 6 5/23/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on May 23 5/16/2011 We're at 1 yr and doing great, where do we go from here? 5/16/2011 I'm having intrusive thoughts about affair partner, should I tell my husband? 5/06/2011 Not knowing what happened Lack of safety in relationship Mate not getting it 5/06/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on May 16 4/25/2011 What's a reasonable length of time to give myself to make the decision about staying in the marriage? 4/25/2011 Who needs to know about my affair? I want to tell my friends, but the wife of my AP doesn't want me to 4/25/2011 Does your heart follow your behavior? My mate has been cold since discovery of their affair and I want to reconnect with them physically 4/25/2011 How can we have intimacy or a marriage if lies are present? 4/25/2011 How do I get my mate to talk and how can we heal if they wont? Can you give suggestions? 4/25/2011 With sex addiction, is it normal to still have little intimacy after 11 months? When will he start to feel? 4/25/2011 The Truth about Trust 4/18/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on April 25 4/18/2011 Do I really love my husband if I got involved in an affair? How do I get over the confusion? 4/18/2011 How can you tell if someone has moved back into a narcissistic way of thinking? 4/18/2011 What do I do if my mate wont answer my questions? 4/18/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on April 18 4/12/2011 Pages« first‹ previous…919293949596979899…next ›last »
