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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment?	5/18/2018
	Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment?	5/18/2018
	Q&A Will I Ever Stop Flooding?	5/18/2018
	Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair?	5/18/2018
	Q&A Do You Think We Can Ever Truly Move Forward without Him Seeking Any Help?	5/18/2018
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?	5/18/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope?	5/18/2018
	Q&A Do Most Affairs End Badly?	5/18/2018
	Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth?	5/18/2018
	Q&A How Can I Minimize Thoughts of the Affair Partner?	5/16/2018
	Q&A Can Men Have Control over Masturbation?	5/16/2018
	Q&A What Is Your Opinion on Patrick Doyle's Material?	5/16/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent?	5/16/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Explain Why What My Husband Is Doing Isn't Working?	5/16/2018
	Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law?	5/16/2018
	Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles	5/16/2018
	Q&A Should I Put My Running Shoes on and Get out Now?	5/09/2018
	Q&A How Do I Communicate That If He Doesn't Get Help That It's Over?	5/09/2018
	Q&A How to I Get past My Irritation Towards My Mate?	5/09/2018
	Q&A Is This a Sign of My Husband's Lack of Commitment?	5/09/2018
	Q&A Will My Formerly Wayward Spouse Ever Feel Special to Me Again?	5/09/2018
	Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Apologize to the Affair Partner or Is There Another Way?	5/09/2018
	Q&A What Do I Do While Waiting for My Spouse to Be Safe?	5/09/2018
	Q&A Is His Betrayal Too Much to Overcome, or Is There Really Hope?	5/09/2018
	Q&A How Can We Repair the Damage to Our Children?	5/09/2018
	Q&A What Are Some Ways I Can Assess Progress?	5/09/2018
	Q&A Will EMS Online Be Effective for Us If My Mate Doesn't View Online Interactions as 'Real'?	5/09/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Recommendations for Coming to an Agreement on Sexual Intimacy after an EMS Weekend?	5/09/2018
	Q&A What Treatment Do You Recommend for Me?	5/09/2018
	Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was?	5/07/2018
	Q&A When Will the Unfaithful Have Feelings Again for Their Wife and Family?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Spouse about the Affair?	5/07/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Can a Person Sincerely Do a ‘180’ on the Way He Treats His Wife after an Affair?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get Hope?	5/07/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Will I Ever Feel Love for My Husband Again?	5/07/2018
	Q&A What Do I Say to Family Members That Would Like Me to File for Divorce?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Should I Leave the Marriage or Should I Stay?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Should I Leave the Marriage or Should I Stay?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Should I Ask My Unfaithful Wife for What I Want?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Will I Know When the Time Is Right to Date Again?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Is a 'Loss of Self' Specific to Infidelity or Trauma?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Common Is It for the Unfaithful Wife to Shut Down?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Any Insights on My Situation?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Will My Husband Ever Be Able to Self-Regulate His Behavior?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Long Can This Process Take and What, If Anything, Should I Be Doing Differently?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Overcome My Doubts and Uncertainty?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Why Did My Spouse Leave His Wedding Band on While He Was with the Affair Partner?	5/07/2018