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	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What do you Suggest for Counseling and EMS Online?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can I Help My Betrayed Mate Stay in the Present?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Are the Unfaithful Triggered by Contact?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Does Divorce Help Lessen Triggers?	4/28/2016
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Any Hope for a Betrayed Man?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Should My Mate and I Agree on Moral Values?	4/28/2016
	Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario?	4/28/2016
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Should Sex Addicts Refrain from Sex to Start Recovery?	4/28/2016
	Q&A What Are Some Exercises to Rebuild Trust?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Is My Newfound Independence Bad for Reconciliation?	4/28/2016
	Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe?	4/28/2016
	Q&A (HH) Is There Private Mentoring at AR?	4/28/2016
	Q&A (HH) How Important is it to Know if it's Sex Addiction?	4/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Free my Mind of D-Day Reminders Every Month?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Is There a Way I Can Engage My Disconnected Betrayed Spouse?	4/26/2016
	Q&A How do I Celebrate Our Wedding Anniversary Now?	4/26/2016
	Q&A Should I Believe This?	4/26/2016
	Q&A At What Point is Reconciliation Not Possible?	4/26/2016
	Q&A Can You Share More About Your Daughter's Past, and How Can Professionals Be Unfaithful?	4/26/2016
	Q&A What Else Can We do For Support?	4/26/2016
	Q&A How Can I 'Want' to Stay Away From Someone I Love?	4/13/2016
	Q&A How Can We Get Past This Issue?	4/13/2016
	Q&A What Does Healthy Empathy Look Like?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy?	4/13/2016
	Q&A How Prevalent is Narcissism Among the Unfaithful?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Is a Sexless Marriage My New Reality?	4/13/2016
	Q&A How Can I Help Him Understand My Need?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Guidance for Recommitting?	4/13/2016
	Q&A How Can I Get Past the Trigger Dates?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Should Online Groups be More Balanced?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Can You Help Me Feel Empathy?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Can I Ever REALLY Feel Special Again?	4/13/2016
	Q&A (HH) Any Advice for Our Disclosure Challenges?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Can I and Should I Believe Him?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Should I 'Know' Who She is?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Suggestions for Dealing with Trauma?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) How do You Know if Your Unfaithful Spouse is Taking Responsibility or Still Lying?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) What Feelings Do the Unfaithful Experience?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Can You Recommend a Conflict Resolution Plan for Us?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) How Far Past Disclosure Am I?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Leslie, Can You Explain?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Can You Offer Me Any Other Advice?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) How Can I Check Into My Spouse's Business Phone?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home?	3/24/2016
	Q&A How do I Help My Unfaithful Spouse?	3/21/2016
	Q&A How Does He Disconnect From Her and How Do We Reconnect?	3/21/2016
	Q&A Is it Normal for Me to be Accused of Guilt?	3/21/2016