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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Are Some Next Steps for Us?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Is it Too Late to Start Over?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can I Believe in Myself and the Honest Attempts of my Spouse?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Will This Method of Disclosure Cause me More Harm?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can We Handle This Issue With a Teenager?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can I Move Forward Without Being Forgiven?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Should I Stop Trying to Understand?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can the Betrayed Make Sense from 30+ Years of Deceit?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Show Initiative?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Will I Always Keep This Wall of Protection?	5/03/2016
	Q&A What do You Recommend for a Polygraph?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Betrayed Men?	5/03/2016
	Q&A What do you Suggest for Counseling and EMS Online?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can I Help My Betrayed Mate Stay in the Present?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Are the Unfaithful Triggered by Contact?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Does Divorce Help Lessen Triggers?	4/28/2016
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Any Hope for a Betrayed Man?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Should My Mate and I Agree on Moral Values?	4/28/2016
	Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario?	4/28/2016
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Should Sex Addicts Refrain from Sex to Start Recovery?	4/28/2016
	Q&A What Are Some Exercises to Rebuild Trust?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Is My Newfound Independence Bad for Reconciliation?	4/28/2016
	Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe?	4/28/2016
	Q&A (HH) Is There Private Mentoring at AR?	4/28/2016
	Q&A (HH) How Important is it to Know if it's Sex Addiction?	4/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Free my Mind of D-Day Reminders Every Month?	4/28/2016
	Q&A Is There a Way I Can Engage My Disconnected Betrayed Spouse?	4/26/2016
	Q&A How do I Celebrate Our Wedding Anniversary Now?	4/26/2016
	Q&A Should I Believe This?	4/26/2016
	Q&A At What Point is Reconciliation Not Possible?	4/26/2016
	Q&A Can You Share More About Your Daughter's Past, and How Can Professionals Be Unfaithful?	4/26/2016
	Q&A What Else Can We do For Support?	4/26/2016
	Q&A How Can I 'Want' to Stay Away From Someone I Love?	4/13/2016
	Q&A How Can We Get Past This Issue?	4/13/2016
	Q&A What Does Healthy Empathy Look Like?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy?	4/13/2016
	Q&A How Prevalent is Narcissism Among the Unfaithful?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Is a Sexless Marriage My New Reality?	4/13/2016
	Q&A How Can I Help Him Understand My Need?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Guidance for Recommitting?	4/13/2016
	Q&A How Can I Get Past the Trigger Dates?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Should Online Groups be More Balanced?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Can You Help Me Feel Empathy?	4/13/2016
	Q&A Can I Ever REALLY Feel Special Again?	4/13/2016
	Q&A (HH) Any Advice for Our Disclosure Challenges?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Can I and Should I Believe Him?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Should I 'Know' Who She is?	3/24/2016
	Q&A (HH) Suggestions for Dealing with Trauma?	3/24/2016