All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity 4838 Resources Type Title Posted How do I deal with my wife's triggers? 8/29/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on September 12 8/29/2011 How does codependecy contribute to infidelty? 8/29/2011 What are some resources for the wife of a porn addict? 8/29/2011 I'm wondering if my mate and I are compatible, when does one call it quits? 8/29/2011 I'm not in love with my mate, how can I ever get those feelings back again? My AP makes me feel ways my mate never has 8/29/2011 Rick's Q & A call on August 29 8/22/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on August 22 8/02/2011 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 7/27/2011 I said I'd leave if my mate ever cheated on me, am I crazy for staying and trying to work things out? 7/22/2011 When is there too much hurt to reconcile? I can't even let my family know that we're talking, should he try to talk to them? 7/22/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on July 25 7/13/2011 The Definition of Freedom - Before and After an Affair 7/07/2011 Fifteen months after disclosure is it normal to still have emotional flooding and how do I get my husband to understand? 7/05/2011 What boudaries need to be set up at work? 7/05/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on July 11 6/28/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 27 6/20/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 20 6/13/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 13 6/06/2011 HH - Leslie and John Call - May 25, 2011 5/26/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 6 5/23/2011 We're at 1 yr and doing great, where do we go from here? 5/16/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on May 23 5/16/2011 I'm having intrusive thoughts about affair partner, should I tell my husband? 5/06/2011 Not knowing what happened Lack of safety in relationship Mate not getting it 5/06/2011 Who needs to know about my affair? I want to tell my friends, but the wife of my AP doesn't want me to 4/25/2011 What's a reasonable length of time to give myself to make the decision about staying in the marriage? 4/25/2011 Does your heart follow your behavior? My mate has been cold since discovery of their affair and I want to reconnect with them physically 4/25/2011 How can we have intimacy or a marriage if lies are present? 4/25/2011 How do I get my mate to talk and how can we heal if they wont? Can you give suggestions? 4/25/2011 With sex addiction, is it normal to still have little intimacy after 11 months? When will he start to feel? 4/25/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on May 16 4/25/2011 The Truth about Trust 4/18/2011 Do I really love my husband if I got involved in an affair? How do I get over the confusion? 4/18/2011 How can you tell if someone has moved back into a narcissistic way of thinking? 4/18/2011 What do I do if my mate wont answer my questions? 4/18/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on April 25 4/18/2011 How does being sexual molested impact my marriage and having an affair? 4/12/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on April 18 4/12/2011 My wife is pregnant, should we tell our families that the affair partner might be the father of the baby? 4/04/2011 Should I continue with the beyond EMS calls if my husband is still in touch with his affair partner? 4/04/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on April 11 4/04/2011 If the AP is a first cousin what should the boundaries be? 3/29/2011 Recovering from infidelity Interview with Keesha Ewers of Healthy You Radio 3/25/2011 Rick's Q & A - April 4, 2011 3/24/2011 When do you get so tired and hurt do you throw in the towel and say this relationship has no future? 3/22/2011 If I don't think my husband is honestly addressing and answering the questions asked should I confront him now or wait for the course to do this in the weeks to come? 3/22/2011 In my husband's addiction, am I really his loving wife or am I just another object of his addiction? How can I tell the difference? 3/22/2011 How Many Marriages does Ashley Madison Save? 3/03/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on March 14 3/01/2011 Pages« first‹ previous…878889909192939495…next ›last »