For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?
Video icon Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?
Video icon Q&A Am I Emotionally Ruined for Good, Or Can This Change Over Time?
Video icon Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall
Video icon Q&A Is It Over for Us?
Video icon Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Typical of a Sex Addict?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Make Sense of My Wife's Desire for Erotica?
Video icon Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis
Video icon How to Forgive When You Can't Forget
Video icon His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?
Video icon Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?
Video icon Triggers After Infidelity: What To Do When They Hit
Video icon Q&A Do You Think An Ultimatum for the Unfaithful is Necessary?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Safe to Stay With?
Video icon Q&A Why Stay With Someone I'm No Longer Proud To Be With? Will That Feeling Ever Return?
Video icon Q&A What Behaviors Should I Realistically Expect From A Remorseful Spouse at This Stage?
Video icon White-Knuckling vs True Recovery: The Road Map to Healing Sexual Addiction
Video icon Why is Trusting Again So Hard?
Video icon Understanding the Impact of Betrayal Trauma with Andrea Rogers
Video icon Anger: Its 6 Roots
Video icon Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? Signs, Hope and What to Do Next with Matt Wenger
Video icon Part of Me Wants to Stay. Part of Me Wants to Leave. Why?
Video icon Q&A Is He a Compulsive Liar I Can Never Trust?
Video icon Why It Happened Again: An Unfaithful Man's Story of Real Recovery
Video icon Q&A How Do We Find Closure When The Affair Partner Is A Close Friend?
Video icon Trauma or Emotional Abuse? Gaslighting, Narcissism, and Lack of Empathy with Dr. Hawkins
Video icon What is Healing?
Video icon How to Heal the Anger That Won’t Let Go After Infidelity
Video icon Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair
Video icon Therapy, Groups, and Intensives: What Actually Works After an Affair?
Video icon The Hidden Cause of Affairs and Finding Answers with Jay Stringer
Video icon Q&A How Do I See the Wayward as a Good Person Who Made a Serious Mistake?
Video icon Q&A How Will She Ever Know Why She Really Had the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Does My Husband Really Have to 'Get It' to Be Safe For My Own Healing?
Video icon Q&A What Affair Type Category Does an Entire Second Identity Fall Under?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Set Boundaries for Myself While Staying Compassionate for My Spouses Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Not Feel Betrayed After Years of Dismissal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Regain My Identity?
Text icon The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Feel Ambivalent About Doing Activities with My Wayward Spouse?
Text icon Did You Marry the Wrong Person?
Video icon Is Childhood Trauma Affecting Your Recovery After an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Even Think About Trust Now?
Text icon Relapse: Why Can't You Stop?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unreasonable for Me To Need Fundamental Change To Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose to My Wayward Spouse Who I Shared Details With After Discovery?
Video icon Q&A Can Our Relationship Recover from a Substance-Fueled Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Reconcile, Given the Waywards Current Emotional State?