For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?
Video icon Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think An Ultimatum for the Unfaithful is Necessary?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Safe to Stay With?
Video icon Q&A Why Stay With Someone I'm No Longer Proud To Be With? Will That Feeling Ever Return?
Video icon Q&A What Behaviors Should I Realistically Expect From A Remorseful Spouse at This Stage?
Text icon Why is Trusting Again So Hard?
Text icon Anger: Its 6 Roots
Video icon Q&A Is He a Compulsive Liar I Can Never Trust?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Find Closure When The Affair Partner Is A Close Friend?
Video icon What is Healing?
Video icon Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair
Video icon Q&A How Do I See the Wayward as a Good Person Who Made a Serious Mistake?
Video icon Q&A How Will She Ever Know Why She Really Had the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Does My Husband Really Have to 'Get It' to Be Safe For My Own Healing?
Video icon Q&A What Affair Type Category Does an Entire Second Identity Fall Under?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Set Boundaries for Myself While Staying Compassionate for My Spouses Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Not Feel Betrayed After Years of Dismissal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Regain My Identity?
Text icon The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Feel Ambivalent About Doing Activities with My Wayward Spouse?
Text icon Did You Marry the Wrong Person?
Video icon Is Childhood Trauma Affecting Your Recovery After an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Even Think About Trust Now?
Text icon Relapse: Why Can't You Stop?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unreasonable for Me To Need Fundamental Change To Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose to My Wayward Spouse Who I Shared Details With After Discovery?
Video icon Q&A Can Our Relationship Recover from a Substance-Fueled Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Reconcile, Given the Waywards Current Emotional State?
Text icon What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components
Video icon Q&A Do I Ask These Questions, Even if They May Cause Further Pain?
Video icon Q&A What If My Unfaithful Spouse Feels They Do Not Need Therapy or Help?
Video icon Tips for Surviving the Holidays
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond to What Seems Like Selfish Demands From Her to Do Things As We Did Before?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward When The Wayward Is Not Yet Able to Show Up in the Way The Healing Process Requires?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Rejected When I Sense That Some of My Husband’s Affection is Something He’s Offering Only to Support Me, Rather Than Something He Genuinely Feels?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset? Part 2.
Text icon Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset?
Video icon Q&A Am I Crazy to Think This Could Ever Work Again or Is This a Narcissistic Cycle?
Video icon Q&A Why Does It Seem That the Unfaithful Are More ‘Broken’ than the Betrayed After Everything That They Have Done to Us?
Video icon Q&A Am I Crazy for Trying to Trust My Spouse?
Video icon Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding
Video icon Q&A How Can I Move Towards Vulnerability with Someone Capable of This?
Video icon Q&A Have Men Been Able to Forgive and Have a Healthy Relationship After Extreme Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Could He So Easily Forget the Pain He Caused?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better?
Text icon How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship?