Handling Discovery
We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.
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565 Resources : Handling Discovery
Type Title Posted
Video Q&A Do I Have to Know About it? 1/05/2016
Video Q&A Should I Disclose My Affair to My Father? 1/05/2016
Video Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It? 12/08/2015
Video Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed? 12/08/2015
Audio Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It? 11/19/2015
Audio Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure? 11/19/2015
Video Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment? 10/06/2015
Audio Q&A Can One Reconnect While Not Being Truly Intimate? 10/01/2015
Video Q&A Are My Questions Unfair? 9/28/2015
Video Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery? 9/28/2015
Video Q&A How do I Handle my Triggers? 9/22/2015
Video Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015
Video Q&A Is This a Deal Breaker? 9/22/2015
Video Q&A What are the Right Questions? 9/01/2015
Video Q&A What can I do to Get My Spouse to Give us More Time? 8/25/2015
Video Q&A Should I Run Away? 8/25/2015
Video Q&A How do I Deal with this Horrific Truth? 8/25/2015
Video Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A Where do I Start After Lying for so Long? 8/18/2015
Video Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015
Video Q&A How Much do I Need to Know? 8/11/2015
Audio Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015
Audio Q&A How do I Come to Terms with what they Did? 7/31/2015
Audio Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015
Text The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015
Video Q&A Will I Ever Believe an Agreement Again? 7/28/2015
Video Q&A Why Does my Mindset Change from Morning to Night? 7/28/2015
Video Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like? 7/28/2015
Video Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner? 7/20/2015
Video Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now? 7/07/2015
Audio Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure? 6/26/2015
Video Q&A What are the Issues Related to Being a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/23/2015
Video Q&A Should I be Leading our Recovery? 6/23/2015
Video Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015
Video Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/09/2015
Video The Number One Question and How to Answer It 6/04/2015
Video Q&A How Does Trickle Truth Affect my Recovery Timeline? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A How can I be Certain my Spouse has Disclosed Everything? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A Why is my Husband Resisting Change? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A How do You Know When You Have Worked Through the Pain? 6/02/2015
Video Q&A How Much Can be Shared About the Affair Sex? 5/12/2015
Video Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner? 5/12/2015
Video Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015
Video Q&A Can Our Marriage Begin Again? 5/04/2015
Video Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015
Video Q&A Does Giving my Wife Full Disclosure in Therapy Make me Less of a Man? 4/21/2015
Video Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind? 4/15/2015
Video Q&A My Husband's AP May be Pregnant with his Child. What do I do? 4/15/2015
Video Q&A What do I do With a New Discovery About my Husband's Behavior? 4/15/2015

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