Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 372 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Prevalent is Narcissism Among the Unfaithful? 4/13/2016 Q&A (HH) Can I and Should I Believe Him? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) What Feelings Do the Unfaithful Experience? 3/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal for Me to be Accused of Guilt? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why? 3/15/2016 Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago? 3/01/2016 Q&A Can You Help Simplify our Complicated Idea of Love? 3/01/2016 Q&A What Kind of Affair Was it? Does it Matter? 1/26/2016 Q&A Is She Addicted to a Narcissist? 1/26/2016 Q&A Can You Elaborate on Sex Addicts and Their Emotional Immaturity? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015 Q&A Which Affair Types Are Most Devastating? 12/23/2015 Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing? 12/22/2015 Q&A How Do I Forgive When it Wasn't a Mistake? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Can My Mate Find Relevancy With the 'Why' Chapter? 12/01/2015 Q&A Did She Really Betray Her True Nature? 12/01/2015 Q&A Was This Authority Rape? 12/01/2015 Q&A Is It Because Of An Addiction Or Compulsion? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Made Him Do This, Narcissism Or Addiction? 11/10/2015 Q&A Did My ADHD Create Vulnerability for My Spouse? 10/20/2015 Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015 Q&A Why Even Justify This? 10/06/2015 Q&A Betrayal Begins With You? 10/06/2015 Q&A Are My Questions Unfair? 9/28/2015 Q&A Normal People do Not do This! 9/22/2015 Q&A Why His Ex? 9/22/2015 Q&A I Love Her, Why Did I Cheat on Her? 9/22/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex? 9/17/2015 Q&A Why did he Marry me when he was with her? 9/17/2015 Q&A Why Wouldn't he End it? 9/17/2015 Q&A I Want him to Want me... Will the Feelings Return? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it More Difficult for Men to Recover from Betrayal? 9/17/2015 Q&A Can I Survive my Husband's Limerance? 9/17/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Want it? 9/01/2015 Q&A Is this because of his Father? 9/01/2015 Q&A How can I Accept and Forgive when I Don't Understand? 8/27/2015 Q&A Would it Help my Mate to Understand my Rationalizations? 8/25/2015 Q&A How can I Compete with the Affair Partner? 8/18/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Express his Love? 8/11/2015 Q&A Should I Just Divorce and Leave Him? 8/11/2015 Q&A Does Chronic Pain Increase Vulnerability to Have an Affair? 8/04/2015 Q&A Does Chronic Pain Contribute to Affairs? 7/31/2015 Q&A Was it a Desire to be Desired? 7/31/2015 Q&A They had to Know the Affair Would Devastate me, Right? 7/28/2015 Q&A What Effects do Antidepressants Have on Infidelity? 7/07/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to be Mean to Someone you Love? 7/07/2015 Q&A How can I Regain Self-Esteem? 6/23/2015 Q&A What are the Issues Related to Being a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/23/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »