For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 1209 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking? 3/19/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane? 3/19/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner? 3/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Being in the Friend Zone with My Wife? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly? 3/16/2020 Q&A Can I Get My Motivation Back? 3/16/2020 Q&A Is There Any Way to Help My Wayward Spouse? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship? 3/16/2020 Q&A What Do I Do If My Husband Won't Get Help? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Find Balance between Healing Myself and Healing Our Relationship? 3/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors? 3/16/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault? 3/10/2020 Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse? 3/03/2020 Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts? 3/03/2020 Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity? 3/03/2020 Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict? 2/20/2020 Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me? 2/14/2020 Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me? 2/11/2020 Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband? 1/31/2020 Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Sharing Specific Details about Me with His Affair Partner? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth? 1/09/2020 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse? 1/03/2020 Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Long Should I Stay and Work on the Relationship before Leaving? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD? 1/02/2020 Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband? 1/02/2020 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me? 1/02/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…8910111213141516…next ›last »