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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A When Is the Right Time for Confrontation and How Do I Tell Him I Know about the Affair?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Is It Unreasonable Of Me to Ask Him to Get Tested Now?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Am I Hurting Us More by Not Letting Him Live at Home?	6/16/2021
	Q&A What Resources Can I Give My Family for Supporting Me through This Time and Setting Healthy Boundaries?	6/16/2021
	Q&A What Is the Best Response for My Husband?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Did My Husband Have an Affair Because He Felt Unloved and Unappreciated In Our Marriage?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Is Fantasy Sex a Betrayal?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Should I Be Considering Any Restrictions on Her Access to Our Children If She Continues to Act Out?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Get Over the Fact That My Wife Gave Her Affair Partner More Intense and Passionate Sex Than She Has Ever Given Me?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Is There Anything I Can Be Doing to Leave an Opening for a Different Path?	6/16/2021
	Q&A What Is the Divorce Rate beyond 5 Years after Recovery?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Find the Strength to Stay When It Means I Will Have to Be a Father to the Child of Her Betrayal?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed?	6/16/2021
	Q&A When Faced with Such a Painful Outcome as This, What Is a Spouse Able to Do Aside from Self-Care and Healing?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught?	6/16/2021
	QQ&A Am I Wrong to Keep Demanding an Explanation about How the Affair Started Instead of Letting It Go?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Why Would He Hire This Particular Escort?	6/16/2021
	Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Why Does My Husband, Who Says He Wants to Reconcile, Keep Bringing up All My Shortcomings?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation?	6/03/2021
	Q&A How Can I Tell If the Problem Isn’t My Mate, but Me?	6/03/2021
	Q&A How Can We Best Help Our Child Who Discovered the Affair?	6/03/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Complicated Family Situation?	6/03/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse’s Defensiveness?	6/03/2021
	Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids	6/02/2021
	How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic	5/26/2021
	Q&A What Do I Do in the Meantime?	5/25/2021
	Q&A Is There Correlation to Infidelity and Attachment Styles?	5/25/2021
	Q&A What Are the Old Behaviors That I Should Seek to Avoid?	5/25/2021
	Q&A Does Experimental Same Sex Acting Out Require Special Layers or Nuances to the Recovery Process?	5/25/2021
	Q&A Do We Try to Get Ahead of Public Backlash?	5/25/2021
	Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity?	5/25/2021
	Q&A What Do We Tell Our Teenage Children?	5/25/2021
	Q&A Should I Receive a Disclosure Letter from My Spouses Work in Hope for Healing?	5/25/2021
	Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks	5/19/2021
	Q&A How Can We Ever Build Trust?	5/12/2021
	Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph?	5/12/2021
	Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend?	5/12/2021
	Q&A Is It Too Soon to Begin Having Sex Again?	4/29/2021
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about a Post Infidelity Contract?	4/29/2021
	Q&A Is There a Seventh Type of Affair?	4/29/2021
	Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner?	4/29/2021
	Q&A How Do I Decide What to Do?	4/29/2021
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have For Telling My Spouse That I Know About Their Affair and Who the Affair Partner Is?	4/29/2021
	Q&A How Do I Get Him to See My Perspective?	4/29/2021
	Q&A Is It Possible That I’ll Have a Change of Heart Some Time Down the Road?	4/29/2021