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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner?	6/19/2024
	Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors	6/19/2024
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers?	6/13/2024
	Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt?	6/13/2024
	Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done?	6/13/2024
	Q&A Will I Ever Accept His Reasons for the Affairs?	6/13/2024
	Really Hard Times Will Not Last	6/12/2024
	2 Things You Must Understand About the Disclosure Process	6/05/2024
	Q&A Could You Give a Tangible Example of the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’?	5/28/2024
	Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse	5/22/2024
	A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity	5/15/2024
	Q&A How Is It Helpful to Label Someone for the Rest of Their Life When They Have Changed Directions?	5/14/2024
	Q&A Does My Mate Still Have Feelings for His Affair Partner?	5/14/2024
	Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship	5/08/2024
	Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again?	5/07/2024
	Q&A How Do You Walk Your Heart Through Acceptance?	5/07/2024
	Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me?	5/07/2024
	Creating Healing Spaces	5/01/2024
	Q&A How Much Does Alcohol Play a Factor in a One Night Stand?	4/25/2024
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for Support for Those Going through the Lonely and Brutal Unique Situation of a Divorce Post Affair?	4/25/2024
	Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal?	4/25/2024
	Q&A Every Time I Start to Feel Better, My Unfaithful Spouse Stops Putting in as Much Effort. How Can I Feel Safe When This Happens?	4/25/2024
	Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner?	4/25/2024
	Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife?	4/25/2024
	Q&A How Do We Know if Our Cheating Spouse Is a Sex Addict, Has a Personality Disorder, or if It Is Something Else?	4/25/2024
	Q&A How Do We Recover the Large Sum of Money the Affair Partner Borrowed From My Husband?	4/25/2024
	Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief?	4/25/2024
	Q&A Should My Husband Keep His Mother in His Life Given That She Actively Facilitated and Supported His Actions?	4/25/2024
	Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope	4/24/2024
	The Affair Causing Habit	4/17/2024
	Lessons Learned For Surviving Infidelity	4/10/2024
	Q&A How Do You Move Past Regret Into Acceptance?	4/03/2024
	Q&A How Can I Be More Help to My Wayward Spouse Like He Has Been for Me?	4/03/2024
	Q&A How Can We Overcome Arousal Issues Resulting From Disclosure?	4/03/2024
	Q&A How Can One Move Forward Knowing and Feeling Like This?	4/03/2024
	The Truth About Lying	3/27/2024
	Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity	3/20/2024
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Unfaithful Spouse’s Inability to Self-Reflect?	3/19/2024
	Q&A Why Does My Husband Continue to Lie When I’ve Been a Safe Place for Him Since I Returned?	3/19/2024
	Q&A Why Should I Stay With My Current Wife When I Really Want to Be With My Ex-Wife?	3/19/2024
	Q&A How Does Betrayal Affect Pregnancy and the Well-Being of the Unborn Child?	3/19/2024
	Q&A How Can Someone Love You Even During the Betrayal?	3/19/2024
	Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head?	3/19/2024
	Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery	3/13/2024
	How to Survive Infidelity	3/06/2024
	Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered?	2/28/2024
	Q&A Will an Emotional Affair Become Physical with Enough Opportunity?	2/28/2024
	Q&A Can You Describe ‘The Cycle of Grace’ in Secular Terms?	2/28/2024
	Q&A What Do I Do with an Unfaithful Spouse Who Will Not Provide Me with Full Disclosure?	2/28/2024
	Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Rebuild Real Empathy and Actually Care about Me Again?	2/28/2024