All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Recovery Timeline Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity We Started Well, but... The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 4855 Resources : All Categories Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Deal with the Conflict inside of Me? 1/25/2021 Q&A How Soon Is Too Soon to Let Yourself Forgive, Hope, and Rebuild? 1/25/2021 Q&A What Happens If I or Both My Husband and I Run into the Affair Partner in Public? 1/25/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021 Q&A What Type of Affair Does This Qualify As? 1/14/2021 Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men? 1/14/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do to Prevent a Divorce or Retaliatory Affair? 1/14/2021 Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A Is It Possible to Delude Oneself into Believing an Affair Wasn’t Emotional as a Means of Self Protection? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Q&A Should Sex Addicts Completely Stay Away from Sex, Including Healthy Sex with Their Wives, to Recover? 1/14/2021 Q&A Shouldn’t We Be a Little Better by Now? 1/14/2021 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1/13/2021 Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’? 1/7/2021 123456789101112131415161718192021222324252627282930313233343536373839404142434445464748495051525354555657585960616263646566676869707172737475767778798081828384858687888990919293949596979899100101102103104105106107108109110111112113114115116117118119120121122123124125126127128129130131132133134135136137138139140141142143144145146147148149150151152153154155156157158159160161162163164165166167168169170171172173174175176177178179180181182183184185186187188189190191192193194195196197198199200201202203204205206207208209210211212213214215216217218219220221222223224225226227228229230231232233234235236237238239240241242243> next