How to Forgive Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Power of Small Groups Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How to Survive Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 168 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Transition from being Married to being Single with a Child? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014 Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal? 12/10/2014 Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take? 12/10/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband? 11/24/2014 Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A I Discovered my Husband's Affair After He Passed Away. How do I Heal? 11/20/2014 Q&A Is There a Step by Step Guide on How to Forgive a Betrayal Such as Mine? 11/14/2014 The Trap 7/10/2013 Pages« first‹ previous1234