Why They Did It
The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.
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373 Resources
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Video Q&A Can You Explain to me the Psychology Behind this Behavior? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A What Can You make of All This? 11/30/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants? 11/02/2016
Video Q&A Why Does He Continually Want Her and Not Me? 11/02/2016
Video Q&A Why Would He Make a Decision to do This? 10/24/2016
Video Q&A How do you Know if Someone is a Sex Addict or Just Wanting Something More? 10/24/2016
Video Q&A Is My Husband Evil, or Just Extremely Cruel? 10/24/2016
Video Q&A Can There be no Feelings After an 8 Year Affair? 10/18/2016
Video Q&A What Caused Him to Have an Affair? 10/18/2016
Video Q&A His Affair Partner is Toxic. Why Won't He Let Her Go? 10/18/2016
Video Q&A Was His Infidelity Based on Me Not Being Who He Wants? 10/12/2016
Video Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure? 10/11/2016
Video Q&A Why Isn't She Remorseful After Her Affair? 10/11/2016
Video Q&A I was Unfaithful. Why do I Feel Betrayed? 9/28/2016
Video Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016
Video Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs? 9/28/2016
Video Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically? 9/28/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair? 9/28/2016
Video Q&A Why Can't My Mate Stay Away from the Affair Partner? 9/22/2016
Video Q&A Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me? 9/22/2016
Video Q&A What's the Relationship Between Trauma and Infidelity? 9/22/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair? 9/14/2016
Video Q&A How Could I Do This to My Mate? 9/14/2016
Video Q&A Why Did They Do Something We Can't Do Together? 9/14/2016
Video Q&A What Causes Someone to do Such Horrific Things? 9/07/2016
Video Q&A Does My Spouse Need Intensive Therapy? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A Can Marriages Survive Mismatched Personalities and Sexual Differences? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A Is Cheating Only Possible When He's Drunk? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition? 7/26/2016
Video Q&A Do Some Only Cheat While Drunk? 7/19/2016
Video Q&A How do We Figure Out the Justifications? 7/19/2016
Video Q&A Why did My Best Friend and Spouse Betray Me Together? 7/12/2016
Video Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016
Video Q&A Is There Peace in Saving it When There is Nothing Sacred? 7/01/2016
Video Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016
Video Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the AP? 6/28/2016
Video Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Not Feel Like Plan B? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A Any Noticeable Links for the Unfaithful? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A What's the Darkness Like? 6/14/2016
Audio Q&A How Did He Cheat With Someone He Hates? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A Why Doesn't He Talk About Previous Relationships? 6/03/2016
Video Q&A Am I Addicted to Limerance? 5/03/2016
Video Q&A Should I Stop Trying to Understand? 5/03/2016
Audio Q&A Should My Mate and I Agree on Moral Values? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) How Important is it to Know if it's Sex Addiction? 4/28/2016
Video Q&A Can You Share More About Your Daughter's Past, and How Can Professionals Be Unfaithful? 4/26/2016

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