Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 358 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Why Can't My Mate Stay Away from the Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Q&A Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me? 9/22/2016 Q&A What's the Relationship Between Trauma and Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Could I Do This to My Mate? 9/14/2016 Q&A Why Did They Do Something We Can't Do Together? 9/14/2016 Q&A What Causes Someone to do Such Horrific Things? 9/07/2016 Q&A Does My Spouse Need Intensive Therapy? 8/03/2016 Q&A Can Marriages Survive Mismatched Personalities and Sexual Differences? 8/03/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is Cheating Only Possible When He's Drunk? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition? 7/26/2016 Q&A Do Some Only Cheat While Drunk? 7/19/2016 Q&A How do We Figure Out the Justifications? 7/19/2016 Q&A Why did My Best Friend and Spouse Betray Me Together? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016 Q&A Is There Peace in Saving it When There is Nothing Sacred? 7/01/2016 Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the AP? 6/28/2016 Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair? 6/21/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Feel Like Plan B? 6/14/2016 Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense? 6/14/2016 Q&A Any Noticeable Links for the Unfaithful? 6/14/2016 Q&A What's the Darkness Like? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Did He Cheat With Someone He Hates? 6/03/2016 Q&A Why Doesn't He Talk About Previous Relationships? 6/03/2016 Q&A Am I Addicted to Limerance? 5/03/2016 Q&A Should I Stop Trying to Understand? 5/03/2016 Q&A Should My Mate and I Agree on Moral Values? 4/28/2016 Q&A (HH) How Important is it to Know if it's Sex Addiction? 4/28/2016 Q&A Can You Share More About Your Daughter's Past, and How Can Professionals Be Unfaithful? 4/26/2016 Q&A How Can I 'Want' to Stay Away From Someone I Love? 4/13/2016 Q&A How Prevalent is Narcissism Among the Unfaithful? 4/13/2016 Q&A (HH) Can I and Should I Believe Him? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) What Feelings Do the Unfaithful Experience? 3/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal for Me to be Accused of Guilt? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why? 3/15/2016 Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago? 3/01/2016 Q&A Can You Help Simplify our Complicated Idea of Love? 3/01/2016 Q&A What Kind of Affair Was it? Does it Matter? 1/26/2016 Q&A Is She Addicted to a Narcissist? 1/26/2016 Q&A Can You Elaborate on Sex Addicts and Their Emotional Immaturity? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015 Q&A Which Affair Types Are Most Devastating? 12/23/2015 Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing? 12/22/2015 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »