Why They Did It
The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.
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Video Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs? 9/28/2016
Video Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically? 9/28/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair? 9/28/2016
Video Q&A Why Can't My Mate Stay Away from the Affair Partner? 9/22/2016
Video Q&A Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me? 9/22/2016
Video Q&A What's the Relationship Between Trauma and Infidelity? 9/22/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair? 9/14/2016
Video Q&A How Could I Do This to My Mate? 9/14/2016
Video Q&A Why Did They Do Something We Can't Do Together? 9/14/2016
Video Q&A What Causes Someone to do Such Horrific Things? 9/07/2016
Video Q&A Does My Spouse Need Intensive Therapy? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A Can Marriages Survive Mismatched Personalities and Sexual Differences? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A Is Cheating Only Possible When He's Drunk? 8/03/2016
Video Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition? 7/26/2016
Video Q&A Do Some Only Cheat While Drunk? 7/19/2016
Video Q&A How do We Figure Out the Justifications? 7/19/2016
Video Q&A Why did My Best Friend and Spouse Betray Me Together? 7/12/2016
Video Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016
Video Q&A Is There Peace in Saving it When There is Nothing Sacred? 7/01/2016
Video Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016
Video Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the AP? 6/28/2016
Video Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair? 6/21/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Not Feel Like Plan B? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A Any Noticeable Links for the Unfaithful? 6/14/2016
Video Q&A What's the Darkness Like? 6/14/2016
Audio Q&A How Did He Cheat With Someone He Hates? 6/03/2016
Audio Q&A Why Doesn't He Talk About Previous Relationships? 6/03/2016
Video Q&A Am I Addicted to Limerance? 5/03/2016
Video Q&A Should I Stop Trying to Understand? 5/03/2016
Audio Q&A Should My Mate and I Agree on Moral Values? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) How Important is it to Know if it's Sex Addiction? 4/28/2016
Video Q&A Can You Share More About Your Daughter's Past, and How Can Professionals Be Unfaithful? 4/26/2016
Video Q&A How Can I 'Want' to Stay Away From Someone I Love? 4/13/2016
Video Q&A How Prevalent is Narcissism Among the Unfaithful? 4/13/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) Can I and Should I Believe Him? 3/24/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) What Feelings Do the Unfaithful Experience? 3/24/2016
Video Q&A Is it Normal for Me to be Accused of Guilt? 3/21/2016
Video Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why? 3/15/2016
Video Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago? 3/01/2016
Video Q&A Can You Help Simplify our Complicated Idea of Love? 3/01/2016
Video Q&A What Kind of Affair Was it? Does it Matter? 1/26/2016
Video Q&A Is She Addicted to a Narcissist? 1/26/2016
Audio Q&A Can You Elaborate on Sex Addicts and Their Emotional Immaturity? 12/23/2015
Audio Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015
Audio Q&A Which Affair Types Are Most Devastating? 12/23/2015
Audio Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015
Video Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing? 12/22/2015

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