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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How can I Get my Husband to Cut off Contact With His AP?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Is it Just a Leap of Faith?	3/20/2015
	Q&A How Long does Limerance Last?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Does my Spouse Need Therapy or Divorce?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Should I Retake Harboring Hope Since I've Discovered More Information?	3/20/2015
	Q&A How can I Create Safety When my Betrayed Mate won't Talk About it?	3/16/2015
	Q&A Is it Possible that my Mate has no Feelings for the AP Anymore?	3/16/2015
	Q&A Is EMS Online the Right Fit for Us?	3/16/2015
	Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain?	3/10/2015
	Q&A Married for Life: Can I Do Battle of the Mind Before the Sex Talk?	3/10/2015
	Q&A After 3 Separate Discoveries of Infidelity, How Can I Tell if This is True Change?	3/10/2015
	Q&A When is it Time to Stop Giving my Husband Second Chances?	3/10/2015
	Q&A My Husband Refuses to Sever Ties with his AP. What do you Suggest I do?	3/10/2015
	Therapist Mistakes When Dealing with Infidelity	3/03/2015
	Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers?	2/24/2015
	Q&A How can I Heal the Marriage With an Ambivalent Spouse?	2/20/2015
	Q&A What's the Difference Between Personal Recovery and Marital Recovery?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Could my Spouse be Held Back Without Full Disclosure?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How Should we File our Taxes?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Should my Husband be Doing More?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair?	2/20/2015
	Q&A What do I do When Intrusive Thoughts Cause me to Pull Away?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Can Women Compartmentalize as Men do?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How can I Feel Safe?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How do I Get to the Truth?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How can I Stop Being my Spouse's Accountability Partner?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Does my Husband have Intimacy Issues?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict?	2/10/2015
	Q&A How am I Supposed to Accept the Idea of Relapse?	2/10/2015
	Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover?	2/10/2015
	Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse?	2/10/2015
	Q&A Is Relapse Inevitable?	2/10/2015
	Q&A How can we Agree on Financial Safety?	2/10/2015
	Q&A (HFH) Am I Subconsciously Sabotaging my Marriage?	2/10/2015
	Q&A When is Physical Intimacy Ok?	2/10/2015
	Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself?	1/29/2015
	Q&A Can We Reclaim our Territory?	1/29/2015
	Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Spouse do all the Hard Work?	1/29/2015
	Q&A How Can I Be Safe With my Daughter Contacting my Husbands AP?	1/29/2015
	Q&A Looking for Hope	1/23/2015
	Q&A Is it Safe to Stay?	1/23/2015
	Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse?	1/23/2015
	Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness?	1/23/2015
	Q&A How to Handle Divorce as a Church Leader	1/23/2015
	Q&A Can I Leave Him?	1/23/2015
	Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?!	1/23/2015