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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth?	6/17/2021
	Q&A How Can I Pretend Normal Around Family When Even Thoughts of Them Are Triggering and Intrusive?	6/17/2021
	Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me?	6/17/2021
	Q&A How Can I Help Him Heal and Yet Remain Open and Honest with Him about the Facts and Not What His Feelings about the Facts Are?	6/17/2021
	Q&A What Is the Likelihood of a Betrayed Spouse Achieving Self-Actualization If They Stay with Their Unfaithful Spouse?	6/17/2021
	Q&A How Do We Continue to Try and Get along without Ever Speaking about the Affair or Any Problems?	6/17/2021
	Q&A Should I Keep Pushing Him to Talk and Give Me Answers?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Can I Hope for a Better Future?	6/16/2021
	Q&A What Are the Best Boundaries to Make When My Husband and I Are Having a Discussion about My Healing and He Starts to Get Really Angry?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Navigate This Situation?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Do You Think I Should Send the Letter That I Wrote to My Husband's Affair Partner?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Could This Method of Coping and the Escalation Not Indicate a Sexual Addiction Even Though the Person Only Used Porn Casually?	6/16/2021
	Q&A When Is the Right Time for Confrontation and How Do I Tell Him I Know about the Affair?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Is It Unreasonable Of Me to Ask Him to Get Tested Now?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Am I Hurting Us More by Not Letting Him Live at Home?	6/16/2021
	Q&A What Resources Can I Give My Family for Supporting Me through This Time and Setting Healthy Boundaries?	6/16/2021
	Q&A What Is the Best Response for My Husband?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Did My Husband Have an Affair Because He Felt Unloved and Unappreciated In Our Marriage?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Is Fantasy Sex a Betrayal?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Should I Be Considering Any Restrictions on Her Access to Our Children If She Continues to Act Out?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Get Over the Fact That My Wife Gave Her Affair Partner More Intense and Passionate Sex Than She Has Ever Given Me?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Is There Anything I Can Be Doing to Leave an Opening for a Different Path?	6/16/2021
	Q&A What Is the Divorce Rate beyond 5 Years after Recovery?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Find the Strength to Stay When It Means I Will Have to Be a Father to the Child of Her Betrayal?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed?	6/16/2021
	Q&A When Faced with Such a Painful Outcome as This, What Is a Spouse Able to Do Aside from Self-Care and Healing?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught?	6/16/2021
	QQ&A Am I Wrong to Keep Demanding an Explanation about How the Affair Started Instead of Letting It Go?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Why Would He Hire This Particular Escort?	6/16/2021
	Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Why Does My Husband, Who Says He Wants to Reconcile, Keep Bringing up All My Shortcomings?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation?	6/03/2021
	Q&A How Can I Tell If the Problem Isn’t My Mate, but Me?	6/03/2021
	Q&A How Can We Best Help Our Child Who Discovered the Affair?	6/03/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Complicated Family Situation?	6/03/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse’s Defensiveness?	6/03/2021
	Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids	6/02/2021
	How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic	5/26/2021
	Q&A What Do I Do in the Meantime?	5/25/2021
	Q&A Is There Correlation to Infidelity and Attachment Styles?	5/25/2021
	Q&A What Are the Old Behaviors That I Should Seek to Avoid?	5/25/2021
	Q&A Does Experimental Same Sex Acting Out Require Special Layers or Nuances to the Recovery Process?	5/25/2021
	Q&A Do We Try to Get Ahead of Public Backlash?	5/25/2021
	Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity?	5/25/2021
	Q&A What Do We Tell Our Teenage Children?	5/25/2021
	Q&A Should I Receive a Disclosure Letter from My Spouses Work in Hope for Healing?	5/25/2021