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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Is my loneliness an excuse to hold onto our marriage?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Can you provide examples of larger lives developing after recovery from betrayal?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do we handle the details?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Is it a good idea to move out for a temporary separation?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I get my unfaithful spouse to cooperate?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How does one achieve closure from a marriage?	4/05/2017
	Q&A What can I do to help my parents understand the level in which I have been hurt?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do you ease back into a physical relationship with your spouse after D-Day?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Is there hope or should I follow through with divorce?	4/05/2017
	Q&A What can I do about intrusive thoughts and images arising from the facts I know?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback?	4/05/2017
	Q&A What does Working Through this in a healthy way look like for me and my children?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I Deal With My Wife’s Ambivalence?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I Heal from PTSD Caused by Years of Deceit?	4/05/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Can My Husband Overcome His Ambivalence?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Am I Selfish for Wanting a Divorce after He Has Dishonored Me?	3/29/2017
	Q&A How Do I Bring up a Situation I'm Uncomfortable With?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Can you Explain the statement ‘Love Acts in the Best Interest of Another person’?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Why Should I Stay in a Marriage That Wasn't So Great to Begin With?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Is This as Good as it Gets?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Is This the Right Time to Go to an EMS Weekend?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Can You Explain Why a Book on Sexual Retraining Won't Trigger My Mate?	3/29/2017
	Q&A How Much Time Should I Give It before I Can Tell Whether or Not We Will Recover?	3/29/2017
	Q&A What Type of Affair Is This?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Will Your Book Suggestion Trigger Me?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Our Counselors Process?	3/22/2017
	Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me?	3/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Him Working Long Distance with My Lack of Trust?	3/22/2017
	Q&A How Can She Help Me Rebuild My Trust in Her?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Is This a Reasonable Expectation to Ensure Our Son's Safety?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for Affair Partners to Be Called a Boyfriend or Girlfriend?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Will the Nature of Our Disclosure Complicate Our Healing?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Can You Expand Your Thoughts on Financial Infidelity?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive?	3/15/2017
	Q&A Why Would I Stay with Him?	3/15/2017
	Q&A Do You Know of a Resource That Can Help Me and My Sister?	3/15/2017
	Q&A What Is the Role of Sex in Reconnecting in Our Situation?	3/15/2017
	Q&A My Unfaithful Husband Is Remorseful but I'm Not Interested. What Should I Do?	3/15/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for Him to Still Think about Her and Desire Her?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Can You Share More about the Detox Phase for the Unfaithful Spouse?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Is My Struggle with God Normal and How Do I Move past It?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Request a Polygraph from My Mate?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Will It Hurt Our Recovery If I Never Receive Full Disclosure?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Have We Traded One Self Centered Lifestyle for Another?	3/08/2017