All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 5033 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why is This Abuse Seemingly Acceptable and Forgivable? 3/15/2016 Q&A Can She Do More for Me? 3/15/2016 Q&A Can you Explain More About Vertical and Horizontal Forgiveness? 3/08/2016 Q&A Where was God in That Moment? 3/08/2016 Q&A What Recovery Work Should the Unfaithful Do? 3/08/2016 Q&A Am I a Sex Addict? 3/08/2016 Q&A Do you Agree with my Strategy? 3/08/2016 Q&A Should I Let my Spouse Know of This Trigger? 3/08/2016 Q&A What Can I Do to Handle the Shock? 3/08/2016 Q&A How Can I Find New Life in My Marriage? 3/08/2016 Q&A How Can I Deal With the Pain of the Betrayals? 3/08/2016 Q&A Do I Deserve to be Happy? 3/08/2016 Q&A When is it Appropriate to Set Boundaries Confrontationally? 3/01/2016 Q&A Are These Red Flags for Relapse? 3/01/2016 Q&A Can You Explain What's Happening? 3/01/2016 Q&A Will the Emptiness Caused by Betrayal Ever go Away? 3/01/2016 Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago? 3/01/2016 Q&A What Reactions can We Expect from Our Children? 3/01/2016 Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship? 3/01/2016 Q&A Is our Sexual Intimacy Normal at this Stage of Recovery? 3/01/2016 Q&A What's in the Best Interest of the Child? 3/01/2016 Q&A Can You Help Simplify our Complicated Idea of Love? 3/01/2016 Q&A Are these Boundaries Reasonable? 2/26/2016 Q&A How do I Get Past All the Things he Did? 2/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Help the Unfaithful With Their Shame? 2/26/2016 Q&A Could you Explain More About Full Disclosure? 2/26/2016 Q&A What are the Pros and Cons to Separation After Infidelity? 2/26/2016 Q&A Is Their Limbo Normal for this Length of Time? 2/26/2016 Q&A Should I Confront my Former Best Friend, the Affair Partner? 2/26/2016 Q&A Can there be Reformation and Healing from a Sex Addiction? 2/26/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 Q&A Rick, Did I Really Have an Affair? 2/23/2016 Q&A Any Practical Advice for Our Cycle? 2/23/2016 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Intimacy Anorexia? 2/23/2016 Q&A Do Others Struggle in This Way? 2/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Get Past What He Did? 2/23/2016 Q&A Is Masturbation Without Porn Wrong? 2/23/2016 Q&A To Ask or Not to Ask? 2/23/2016 A Protocol for Reminders 2/17/2016 Q&A Does This Affect How We Address Recovery? 2/16/2016 Q&A Do I Share This, or Suck it Up? 2/16/2016 Q&A Please Tell Me, What Else Can I Do? 2/16/2016 Q&A Are We in False Recovery? 2/16/2016 Q&A Is this the AP's Manipulation? 2/09/2016 Q&A Can a Sex Addict With This History be a Danger to Their Own Children? 2/09/2016 Q&A How Much Change is Possible? 2/09/2016 Q&A Are There any Interventions you Suggest? 2/09/2016 Q&A To Share or Not to Share Pet Peeves? 2/09/2016 Q&A Should we Both Make Changes to be Safe? 2/09/2016 Q&A Should we Discuss Her Resentments Toward me? 2/09/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…757677787980818283…next ›last »
