All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness How to Survive Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 5017 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Prevalent is Narcissism Among the Unfaithful? 4/13/2016 Q&A Is a Sexless Marriage My New Reality? 4/13/2016 Q&A How Can I Help Him Understand My Need? 4/13/2016 Q&A Guidance for Recommitting? 4/13/2016 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Trigger Dates? 4/13/2016 Q&A Should Online Groups be More Balanced? 4/13/2016 Q&A Can I Ever REALLY Feel Special Again? 4/13/2016 Q&A Can You Help Me Feel Empathy? 4/13/2016 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4/13/2016 Q&A (HH) Any Advice for Our Disclosure Challenges? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Can I and Should I Believe Him? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Should I 'Know' Who She is? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Suggestions for Dealing with Trauma? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know if Your Unfaithful Spouse is Taking Responsibility or Still Lying? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) What Feelings Do the Unfaithful Experience? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Can You Recommend a Conflict Resolution Plan for Us? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How Far Past Disclosure Am I? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Leslie, Can You Explain? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How Can I Check Into My Spouse's Business Phone? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Can You Offer Me Any Other Advice? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling? 3/24/2016 Q&A How Does He Disconnect From Her and How Do We Reconnect? 3/21/2016 Q&A How do I Help My Unfaithful Spouse? 3/21/2016 Q&A Is it Normal for Me to be Accused of Guilt? 3/21/2016 Q&A Do You Think This is a Good Idea for Intimacy? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where the Story Makes Sense? 3/21/2016 Q&A Has Anyone Experienced This Double Betrayal? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Do I Overcome Not Putting My Wife First? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Can We Restore Emotional Equality? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why? 3/15/2016 Q&A How do I Get Out of This Cycle? 3/15/2016 Q&A What Are Your Suggestions for a Recovering Sex and Love Addict? 3/15/2016 Q&A Why is This Abuse Seemingly Acceptable and Forgivable? 3/15/2016 Q&A Can She Do More for Me? 3/15/2016 Q&A Can you Explain More About Vertical and Horizontal Forgiveness? 3/08/2016 Q&A Where was God in That Moment? 3/08/2016 Q&A What Recovery Work Should the Unfaithful Do? 3/08/2016 Q&A Am I a Sex Addict? 3/08/2016 Q&A Do you Agree with my Strategy? 3/08/2016 Q&A Should I Let my Spouse Know of This Trigger? 3/08/2016 Q&A What Can I Do to Handle the Shock? 3/08/2016 Q&A How Can I Find New Life in My Marriage? 3/08/2016 Q&A How Can I Deal With the Pain of the Betrayals? 3/08/2016 Q&A Do I Deserve to be Happy? 3/08/2016 Q&A When is it Appropriate to Set Boundaries Confrontationally? 3/01/2016 Q&A Are These Red Flags for Relapse? 3/01/2016 Q&A Can You Explain What's Happening? 3/01/2016 Q&A Will the Emptiness Caused by Betrayal Ever go Away? 3/01/2016 Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago? 3/01/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…747576777879808182…next ›last »