All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 5033 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Does it Mean to Transform Our Pain? 11/17/2015 Q&A Is This a Sign of Healthy Mistrust? 11/17/2015 Q&A Will it Forever Be a Loveless Marriage? 11/17/2015 Affair Recovery Q & A: Answers from an Expert 11/17/2015 Q&A If I Share My Fears With My Spouse, Will That Hold Us Back? 11/10/2015 Q&A The Affair Was Going On Before Our Wedding, How Do I Answer These EMSO Questions? 11/10/2015 Q&A Is It Because Of An Addiction Or Compulsion? 11/10/2015 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse With Sex Related Triggers? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Made Him Do This, Narcissism Or Addiction? 11/10/2015 Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Are the Best Ways to Show Love in the First 18 Months of Recovery? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function? 11/04/2015 Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Have More Productive Conversations? 11/04/2015 Q&A I Want to Learn More About God, Where Do I Start? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Saying, "Why Don't You Just Divorce Me?"? 11/04/2015 Q&A Mentor Couples - What to Do If We Can't Find One? 11/04/2015 Q&A I Was Unfaithful, but I Didn't Know My Spouse Was Also Unfaithful Until After EMS Weekend... What Do We Do? 11/04/2015 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Should We Continue the Course and Risk Hurting the Other Couples? 10/27/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 Q&A Why Is Infidelity So Traumatic? 10/27/2015 How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery? 10/27/2015 How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Do We Get Through the Anniversary Date? 10/20/2015 Q&A How Can Sex Be Special Again? 10/20/2015 Q&A Why Does Our Fresh Start Seem Stale? 10/20/2015 Q&A Did My ADHD Create Vulnerability for My Spouse? 10/20/2015 Q&A Can We Let the Country Music Association Know the Pain They Will Cause? 10/20/2015 Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015 Q&A When Will I Receive the Love I'm Sending? 10/20/2015 Q&A What Consequences Should Follow Broken Boundaries? 10/20/2015 Q&A Is it Safe For Me to Stay? 10/20/2015 Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015 Q&A How Can We Heal When Nothing is Being Addressed? 10/06/2015 Q&A What Do I Do With the Pain? 10/06/2015 Q&A Why Even Justify This? 10/06/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment? 10/06/2015 Q&A Betrayal Begins With You? 10/06/2015 Q&A What's The Difference Between Healthy Emotion and Emotional Flooding? 10/01/2015 Q&A Can One Reconnect While Not Being Truly Intimate? 10/01/2015 Q&A Is it Harmful To Push Through Sexual Intimacy? 10/01/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 Q&A Are My Questions Unfair? 9/28/2015 Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery? 9/28/2015 Q&A Normal People do Not do This! 9/22/2015 Q&A How do I Handle my Triggers? 9/22/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…787980818283848586…next ›last »