Creating Healing Spaces
5/01/2024
Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal?
4/25/2024
Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner?
4/25/2024
Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope
4/24/2024
Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity
3/20/2024
Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head?
3/19/2024
Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery
3/13/2024
Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered?
2/28/2024
Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful
2/21/2024
Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds
2/07/2024
What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery
1/24/2024
Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger?
1/09/2024
Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends?
12/12/2023
Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning?
11/28/2023
Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery
11/22/2023
Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery
10/04/2023
Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders
9/20/2023
Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery?
8/15/2023
Is Ambivalence Common When Healing from Infidelity?
7/19/2023
How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity?
7/19/2023
Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There?
6/29/2023
Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work?
6/16/2023
Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know?
6/14/2023
Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair
6/07/2023
How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling)
5/24/2023
Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic?
5/02/2023
Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery?
4/12/2023
Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed?
4/12/2023
Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse?
3/17/2023
Q&A How Do Social Engagement and Our Nervous Systems Work Together?
3/02/2023
Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'?
1/11/2023
Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted
12/07/2022
Q&A Do I Keep It to Myself When I Get Triggered?
12/06/2022
Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals?
12/06/2022
Q&A How Important Is It to Interrupt Intrusive Thoughts within 3 Seconds?
12/06/2022
Anger: Its 6 Roots
9/28/2022
Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids?
8/10/2022
Q&A Is This a Healthy Way to Process My Anger?
8/03/2022
Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now?
6/14/2022
Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade?
5/24/2022
Q&A How Can I Channel My Own Genuine Positivity and Stop Being Concerned or Insulted by His Behaviors or Attitudes?
5/24/2022
Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again?
4/08/2022
What Is A Forgiveness Letter?
3/16/2022
Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way?
3/10/2022
Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors?
2/17/2022
Q&A When an Intrusive Thought Occurs, How Do I Know the Difference between Suppressing and Ignoring That Thought versus Not Giving It Any Airtime, Capturing It, and Redirecting My Thinking to Something Else?
2/02/2022
Q&A How Can I Get To a More Balanced Psyche?
2/02/2022
Announcing NEW Infidelity Video Blog: Songs for the Soul
1/26/2022
Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away?
1/18/2022
Q&A How Can I Get My Emotionally Unavailable Husband to Walk toward the Storm Instead of Away?
1/18/2022