For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope for a Wayward Spouse, Who Pretends He Has Stopped Communication with the Affair Partner, but Refuses to Be Accountable and Continues to Gaslight?
Video icon Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Be Happier Than They Were before the Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Happens If My Spouse Won't Acknowledge the Relationship as an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Unstuck?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Rid of the Compulsion to Contact My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Expect Him to Work His Way Back to My Heart?
Video icon Q&A Is the Relationship Worth Salvaging?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Wanting and Getting Comfort From My Spouse Who Is the One That Caused So Much Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal and Move Forward in My Marriage Without Knowing Why He Made Those Choices?
Video icon Q&A Is it Safe to Stay?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does?
Video icon Q&A At What Point Does a Serious Case of Narcissism in the Unfaithful Need to Be Considered Unsafe for the Betrayed Spouse to Even Consider Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Expected to Provide Affair-Partner-Level Intensity?
Video icon Q&A Can Someone Who Has Been a Con Ever Be Trusted?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable in My Demand?
Video icon Q&A Will He Always Have Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Him to Understand?
Video icon Q&A When Will the Urge to Snoop End?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When the Wayward Spouse Remains Hidden?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed?
Video icon Q&A What Am I Trying to Save Here?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Build Trust with My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A My Wife Says She Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me. How Do I Respond to This?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation?
Video icon Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine?
Video icon Q&A Do I Quit Expressing My Hurt, Asking Questions, and Pray for Peace in Our Remaining Years?
Video icon Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen?
Video icon Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me?
Video icon Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand It’s Not about Him and His Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Cherish the Positive Family Moments That Happened during the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Accept That His Actions Were Willful and Done without Any Regard of My Feelings?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive?
Video icon Q&A What Would Enabling the Affair Look Like?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Wayward Husband Having a Difficult Time with 'Why'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Start a New Relationship without Fear That This Will Happen Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Heal from This Level of Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Does the Length of the Affair Have Implications for Our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him?
Video icon Q&A Is My Request for Confrontation Reasonable?
Video icon Q&A What If You Feel the Wayward Spouse Is Not Telling the Whole Truth during the Telling of Their Story?
Video icon Q&A Where Is the Empathy for Me?