For the Unfaithful Spouse

Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner?
Text icon Wanting to Be Wanted
Text icon Am I Who They Want?
Video icon Q&A How Much of This Developmental Trauma Contributed to Me Having an Affair in Adulthood?
Text icon Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers?
Text icon How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse?
Video icon Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal?
Video icon Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective
Text icon How to Prevent Relapse After Infidelity
Video icon Were They Thinking of Me?
Video icon The Fantasyland of an Affair
Video icon Mistakes Families Make After an Affair
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done?
Video icon Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal?
Video icon A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity
Video icon Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC
Text icon How to Find Answers
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations?
Text icon Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife?
Video icon Q&A Why Should I Stay With My Current Wife When I Really Want to Be With My Ex-Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered?
Video icon Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful
Video icon What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery
Text icon Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working?
Text icon Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery
Text icon Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders
Video icon Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?
Text icon How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity?
Text icon Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?'
Video icon Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough?
Video icon Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives?
Video icon Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs?
Text icon How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling)
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted?
Video icon Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do?