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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Reclaiming Things Associated with the Affair?	1/28/2021
	Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself?	1/28/2021
	Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information?	1/28/2021
	Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Three Stages of Love?	1/28/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal with the Conflict inside of Me?	1/25/2021
	Q&A How Soon Is Too Soon to Let Yourself Forgive, Hope, and Rebuild?	1/25/2021
	Q&A What Happens If I or Both My Husband and I Run into the Affair Partner in Public?	1/25/2021
	Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors?	1/25/2021
	Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship?	1/20/2021
	Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stay in a Marriage with My Husband Who Won't Open up with Me?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Are My Husband and I Trying to Do the Impossible?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Should I Stay in the Marriage for My Kids?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Reconcile with My Husband and Be Close to My Sisters?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner?	1/14/2021
	Q&A What Type of Affair Does This Qualify As?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men?	1/14/2021
	Q&A What Else Can I Do to Prevent a Divorce or Retaliatory Affair?	1/14/2021
	Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation?	1/14/2021
	Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Is It Possible to Delude Oneself into Believing an Affair Wasn’t Emotional as a Means of Self Protection?	1/14/2021
	Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children?	1/14/2021
	Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head?	1/14/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Should Sex Addicts Completely Stay Away from Sex, Including Healthy Sex with Their Wives, to Recover?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Shouldn’t We Be a Little Better by Now?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’?	1/07/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws?	1/07/2021
	Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage?	1/07/2021
	Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband?	1/07/2021
	Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Is the Roller Coaster of Emotions Normal?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Is It Common to Have Occasional Difficulties with Physical Intimacy, Impotence, or Performance Issues after an Affair?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do We Help Our Adult and Teenage Children?	12/17/2020
	Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Is There Any Chance of a Future for Us Building a New Life Together?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do We Deal with past Trauma?	12/17/2020