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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
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	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How do we Get to Ground Zero and end this Cycle?	1/23/2015
	Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do?	1/23/2015
	Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair?	1/23/2015
	Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict?	1/20/2015
	Q&A How do I Know if I Have Forgiven Enough Times?	1/20/2015
	Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do?	1/12/2015
	Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time?	1/12/2015
	Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again?	1/12/2015
	Q&A Should I Be Healed by Now?	1/12/2015
	Q&A Can We Recover From This?	1/06/2015
	Q&A (HFH) How Can I Break a Soul Tie with my Affair Partner?	1/06/2015
	Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing?	1/06/2015
	Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About HIS Affair Partner?	1/06/2015
	Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation?	1/06/2015
	Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner?	1/06/2015
	Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself?	1/06/2015
	Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in?	1/06/2015
	Q&A Can we Recover Without Romanticism?	12/19/2014
	Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me?	12/19/2014
	Q&A How can he Love me and Love her?	12/19/2014
	Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal?	12/19/2014
	Q&A How do I Transition from being Married to being Single with a Child?	12/19/2014
	Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave?	12/19/2014
	Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions?	12/16/2014
	Q&A How can I Stop the Images from Popping up in my Mind?	12/16/2014
	Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict?	12/16/2014
	Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure?	12/16/2014
	Q&A How far do I Push for the Truth?	12/16/2014
	Q&A Is Pornography Okay for Spouses to Watch Together?	12/16/2014
	Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe?	12/15/2014
	Q&A What is the Difference Between being Angry and Assertive?	12/15/2014
	Q&A Will the Repulsion go Away?	12/15/2014
	Q&A Can I Recover Without Details?	12/15/2014
	Q&A Am I Crazy, or is my Husband Telling the Truth?	12/11/2014
	Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way?	12/11/2014
	Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings?	12/11/2014
	Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner?	12/11/2014
	Q&A Is it Common for Unfaithful to Confess Affair but Continue Lying?	12/11/2014
	Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner?	12/11/2014
	Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization	12/11/2014
	Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure	12/11/2014
	Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse?	12/11/2014
	Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All?	12/11/2014
	Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal?	12/10/2014
	Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take?	12/10/2014
	Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile?	12/10/2014
	Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What?	12/10/2014
	Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life?	12/10/2014
	Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful?	12/10/2014
	Q&A Which Course Should my Spouse Take?	12/10/2014