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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Handle the Mixed Messages I'm Receiving from My Ex-fiancé?	3/22/2021
	Q&A Can a Relationship Born Out of Infidelity Last?	3/22/2021
	Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated?	3/22/2021
	Q&A How Can I Trust God and Have Faith in Him?	3/22/2021
	Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back?	3/18/2021
	Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage?	3/18/2021
	Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust?	3/11/2021
	Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage?	3/11/2021
	Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past?	3/11/2021
	Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Was He Hoping to Get Caught in an Effort to Have Me End the Marriage?	3/09/2021
	Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Am I Being Unrealistic for Wanting to Have a More Loving, Satisfying, Sex Life after Infidelity?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Is Sharing Triggers with Our Partner Counter Productive?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Can You Help You Explain the Difference between Infidelity Trauma or PTSD and Clinical Depression?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Why Do I Want to Indulge in Thoughts of the Other Women?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Does Affair Recovery Blame the Betrayed Spouse?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Could There Really Be Such a Thing as a Midlife Crisis Affair?	3/09/2021
	Q&A How Do We Move on with Long Standing Resentments?	3/09/2021
	Q&A What Is My Husband's Addiction?	3/04/2021
	Q&A What Is She Ambivalent about If There Was No Emotional Attachment to the Affair Partner?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Is There a Video on the “Do's and Don'ts” for Helping Someone Who Is Suffering While Going through the Trauma of Infidelity?	3/04/2021
	Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain?	3/04/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Reaction in This Situation?	3/04/2021
	Q&A What Steps Can I Take to Learn to Trust Again?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Is His Inability to Recall Details of the Affair Normal?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Could Postpartum Depression Lead to an Affair?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Is My Spouse's Attitude Preventing Limerence from Fading?	3/04/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Shame over My Husband's Thoughts?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Can I Ever Feel Love Again for Her If I'm Feeling Trapped in This Marriage?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Can Cuddling with His Roommate Be Platonic?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Can You Go into More Detail about the 'Lonely Hearts Club' Affair?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy?	3/04/2021
	Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for the Ways I Reacted as the Betrayed?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Is Being Immature or a Pastors Kid a Legitimate Reason for Making This Mistake?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Why Is My Ex-Husband Now Playing the Victim?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery?	3/04/2021
	Q&A What Is Attacking Classified As?	2/23/2021
	Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story?	2/23/2021
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed?	2/23/2021
	Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship?	2/11/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life?	2/11/2021
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing?	2/11/2021
	Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions?	1/28/2021
	Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior?	1/28/2021
	Q&A Am I Abnormal for Struggling with Healing?	1/28/2021