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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is This Normal Limerence or Is He a Love Addict?	4/12/2017
	Q&A Should I Be Worried about a Person from My Mates Past?	4/12/2017
	Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out?	4/12/2017
	Q&A When Does Anger Become Emotional Abuse?	4/12/2017
	Q&A How Common are Affairs?	4/12/2017
	Q&A Is It Important for the Betrayed Spouse to Get the Details?	4/12/2017
	Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive?	4/12/2017
	Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported?	4/12/2017
	Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner?	4/12/2017
	Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Can this Be Turned Around?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Will the doubting stop?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I deal with his lack of empathy?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Is my loneliness an excuse to hold onto our marriage?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Can you provide examples of larger lives developing after recovery from betrayal?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do we handle the details?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Is it a good idea to move out for a temporary separation?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I get my unfaithful spouse to cooperate?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How does one achieve closure from a marriage?	4/05/2017
	Q&A What can I do to help my parents understand the level in which I have been hurt?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do you ease back into a physical relationship with your spouse after D-Day?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Is there hope or should I follow through with divorce?	4/05/2017
	Q&A What can I do about intrusive thoughts and images arising from the facts I know?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How can I regain trust after this setback?	4/05/2017
	Q&A What does Working Through this in a healthy way look like for me and my children?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I Deal With My Wife’s Ambivalence?	4/05/2017
	Q&A How do I Heal from PTSD Caused by Years of Deceit?	4/05/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Can My Husband Overcome His Ambivalence?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Am I Selfish for Wanting a Divorce after He Has Dishonored Me?	3/29/2017
	Q&A How Do I Bring up a Situation I'm Uncomfortable With?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Can you Explain the statement ‘Love Acts in the Best Interest of Another person’?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Why Should I Stay in a Marriage That Wasn't So Great to Begin With?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Is This as Good as it Gets?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Is This the Right Time to Go to an EMS Weekend?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Can You Explain Why a Book on Sexual Retraining Won't Trigger My Mate?	3/29/2017
	Q&A How Much Time Should I Give It before I Can Tell Whether or Not We Will Recover?	3/29/2017
	Q&A What Type of Affair Is This?	3/29/2017
	Q&A Will Your Book Suggestion Trigger Me?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Our Counselors Process?	3/22/2017
	Q&A What Should I Do about His Behavior towards Me?	3/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Him Working Long Distance with My Lack of Trust?	3/22/2017
	Q&A How Can She Help Me Rebuild My Trust in Her?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Is This a Reasonable Expectation to Ensure Our Son's Safety?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for Affair Partners to Be Called a Boyfriend or Girlfriend?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Will the Nature of Our Disclosure Complicate Our Healing?	3/22/2017