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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Can You Expand Your Thoughts on Financial Infidelity?	3/22/2017
	Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive?	3/15/2017
	Q&A Why Would I Stay with Him?	3/15/2017
	Q&A Do You Know of a Resource That Can Help Me and My Sister?	3/15/2017
	Q&A What Is the Role of Sex in Reconnecting in Our Situation?	3/15/2017
	Q&A My Unfaithful Husband Is Remorseful but I'm Not Interested. What Should I Do?	3/15/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for Him to Still Think about Her and Desire Her?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Can You Share More about the Detox Phase for the Unfaithful Spouse?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Is My Struggle with God Normal and How Do I Move past It?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Request a Polygraph from My Mate?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Will It Hurt Our Recovery If I Never Receive Full Disclosure?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Have We Traded One Self Centered Lifestyle for Another?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What Was the Sex and Intimacy Retreat Like?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Can I Get past Our Wedding Anniversary?	3/08/2017
	Q&A When Do You Know It's as Good as It's Going to Get?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Why Would I Choose to Stay with Her?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do We Make It through the Course If It's Been Bad for the First 5 Weeks?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What is Reasonable to Expect in the 18-24 Month Timeline?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible to Let My Shield Down and Heal This?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Is His Lack of Transparency Grounds for Divorce?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Should I Continue to Focus on My Own Therapy at This Point?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What Is a Reasonable Shift of Expectations for My Mate in Recovery?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Face Pregnancy as a Trigger?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Regain My Confidence as a Mom When the Principals I Teach Didn't Protect Me?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Do Neglectful Mothers Create Sons Who Become Emotionally Unavailable and Love Avoidant Men?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Will I Know When I've Completely Forgiven Him?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Stop Looking at Him as a Betrayer?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Get Him to Move Forward?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Should This Friendship End?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do We Navigate This and Reconnect Sexually?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Can Someone Hate Their Parent's Infidelity and Then Do It Themselves?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What's the Best Way for Me to Handle My Struggle with Thought Life?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Is It Common to Relapse More Than Once?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Should I Consider Visiting Our Children without My Husband?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Can I Accept This Reality and Let Go?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What Do You Advise for Me to Set Safe Boundaries and Expectations?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Is She Finally Choosing Me or Is It Something Else?	3/08/2017
	Q&A When Will My Mind Stop the Constant Back and Forth Emotions?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Could You Both Share More of Your Journey?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What Other Steps Should We Take to Work towards Reaching a Full Recovery?	3/08/2017
	Q&A When Do Unfaithful Women Typically Begin to Show Empathy?	3/08/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong?	2/28/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do Now? He's Still a Liar and Our Marriage Is a Fake.	2/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Give Our Marriage a Chance?	2/22/2017
	Q&A Will My Husband Ever Recommit to the Marriage?	2/22/2017
	Q&A Can Pop Psychology Predict Our Compatibility?	2/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Stop Focusing on My Past So He Will Work on His Addiction?	2/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Combat My Feelings toward the Unremorseful Affair Partner?	2/22/2017
	Q&A Am I Sabotaging Our Relationship Because I'm Not Getting What I Want?	2/15/2017
	Q&A What Therapy Would You Suggest for Us?	2/15/2017