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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Am I Doing Wrong Here?	8/10/2017
	Q&A What Do You Do When Your Spouse Is Withholding from You?	8/10/2017
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Polygraph Results Such as This?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All?	8/10/2017
	Q&A When Can We Focus on the Affair Rather Than Problems in the Marriage?	8/10/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help Me with My Anxiety about the Affair Partner?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Is Harboring Hope a Step Backwards for Me and My Marriage?	8/10/2017
	Q&A How Would You Describe the Difference between Regret and Remorse?	8/10/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle the Challenges of Sexual Intimacy after D-Day?	8/10/2017
	Q&A How Long Should I Expect Her to Show No Emotions towards Me and Our Marriage?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Should I Respond to the Affair Partner's Letter to Me?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Can You Elaborate on What You Mean by the Unfaithful Partner Often Affairs Down?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Get over the Affair Even Though My Husband Is Doing All the Work to Rebuild?	8/10/2017
	Q&A What Does Acceptance Look Like and How Do I Reach It?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Let Go?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Is This Co-Dependency?	8/02/2017
	Q&A What Resources Do You Suggest for Emotional Trauma?	8/02/2017
	Q&A How Do We Break through Poor Communication Habits?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Move Forward?	8/02/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Emotions towards the Affair Partner?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Can We Recover from This?	8/02/2017
	Q&A What Does Healing Look Like for a Betrayed Husband?	8/02/2017
	Q&A When Do We Stop Looking for Details and Move Forward?	8/02/2017
	Q&A How Do I Reconcile These Opposing Views?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Could Someone Really Think This?	8/02/2017
	Q&A How Can I Get Answers from My Mate?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Why Did My Mate Act Differently with the Affair Partner?	8/02/2017
	Laverne and Lischia's Mentor Video	8/01/2017
	Q&A Can He Be Safe for Me If He Continues to Use Porn?	7/26/2017
	Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much?	7/26/2017
	Q&A What Does My Mate Need to Feel Safe?	7/26/2017
	Q&A Would It Be worth Shifting the Format of EMS Weekend?	7/26/2017
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?	7/26/2017
	Q&A Did My Choices Contribute to the Affair?	7/26/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible to Love Your Spouse and Have a Long Term Affair?	7/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger?	7/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers?	7/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Stop Re-Traumatizing Myself?	7/26/2017
	Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP	7/26/2017
	Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down?	7/26/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding?	7/26/2017
	Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories?	7/19/2017
	Q&A Will EMS Online Help Him Overcome His Ambivalence?	7/19/2017
	Q&A How Do We Move beyond 'Pretend Normal'?	7/19/2017
	Q&A Should There Be Closure with the Affair Partner?	7/19/2017
	Q&A What Do You Mean by 'My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'?	7/19/2017
	Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything?	7/19/2017
	Q&A What Sort of Outcomes Do You See in Situations with Anger Like Ours?	7/19/2017
	Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome?	7/19/2017