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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over?	8/18/2015
	Q&A How do we Once Again Light the Fire of Desire?	8/18/2015
	Q&A How Should we Disclose to our Teenager?	8/18/2015
	Q&A How can I Compete with the Affair Partner?	8/18/2015
	Q&A At what Point do I Move on?	8/11/2015
	Q&A What is he Addicted to?	8/11/2015
	Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies?	8/11/2015
	Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Deal with the Shame of the Unfaithful?	8/11/2015
	Q&A Why Doesn't he Express his Love?	8/11/2015
	Q&A Should I Just Divorce and Leave Him?	8/11/2015
	Q&A How Much do I Need to Know?	8/11/2015
	Q&A Will he Ever Get Over her?	8/04/2015
	Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge?	8/04/2015
	Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair?	8/04/2015
	Q&A Does Chronic Pain Increase Vulnerability to Have an Affair?	8/04/2015
	Q&A What are Specific Examples of Vertical Forgiveness?	8/04/2015
	Q&A What Next?	7/31/2015
	Q&A Does Chronic Pain Contribute to Affairs?	7/31/2015
	Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery?	7/31/2015
	Q&A How do I Help my Teenage Children Cope?	7/31/2015
	Q&A Was it a Desire to be Desired?	7/31/2015
	Q&A How do I Come to Terms with what they Did?	7/31/2015
	Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone?	7/31/2015
	The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery	7/29/2015
	Q&A Will I Ever Believe an Agreement Again?	7/28/2015
	Q&A Why Does my Mindset Change from Morning to Night?	7/28/2015
	Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like?	7/28/2015
	Q&A They had to Know the Affair Would Devastate me, Right?	7/28/2015
	Q&A How do we Cope with the Ashley Madison Blackmail News?	7/28/2015
	Q&A Any Thoughts for a Hopeless Situation?	7/20/2015
	Q&A Can we Modify the Order of Married for Life Lessons?	7/20/2015
	Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner?	7/20/2015
	Social Shame Survey	7/15/2015
	Q&A How Does PTSD Affect Affair Recovery?	7/07/2015
	Q&A What Effects do Antidepressants Have on Infidelity?	7/07/2015
	Q&A Is it Possible to be Mean to Someone you Love?	7/07/2015
	Q&A How Likely is my Mate to Cheat Again?	7/07/2015
	Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not?	7/07/2015
	Q&A What Happens 1 Year After D-Day?	7/07/2015
	Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now?	7/07/2015
	Q&A How Can we Get Our Adult Children to Support Us?	6/26/2015
	Q&A Why Should I Own my Mistakes?	6/26/2015
	Q&A Can You Help me Find Reasons to Stay?	6/26/2015
	Q&A Does my Spouse Really Want to Save the Marriage?	6/26/2015
	Q&A How Can I Encourage my Spouse to Get Help?	6/26/2015
	Q&A Do Antidepressants Affect Recovery?	6/26/2015
	Q&A How do I Respond to Ambivalence?	6/26/2015
	Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure?	6/26/2015
	Q&A How can I Regain Self-Esteem?	6/23/2015
	Q&A Is There a Reason to go to EMS Weekend After Completing EMS Online?	6/23/2015