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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A When is it Time to Stop Giving my Husband Second Chances?	3/10/2015
	Q&A My Husband Refuses to Sever Ties with his AP. What do you Suggest I do?	3/10/2015
	Therapist Mistakes When Dealing with Infidelity	3/03/2015
	Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers?	2/24/2015
	Q&A How can I Heal the Marriage With an Ambivalent Spouse?	2/20/2015
	Q&A What's the Difference Between Personal Recovery and Marital Recovery?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Could my Spouse be Held Back Without Full Disclosure?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How Should we File our Taxes?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Should my Husband be Doing More?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair?	2/20/2015
	Q&A What do I do When Intrusive Thoughts Cause me to Pull Away?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Can Women Compartmentalize as Men do?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How can I Feel Safe?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How do I Get to the Truth?	2/20/2015
	Q&A How can I Stop Being my Spouse's Accountability Partner?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Does my Husband have Intimacy Issues?	2/20/2015
	Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict?	2/10/2015
	Q&A How am I Supposed to Accept the Idea of Relapse?	2/10/2015
	Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover?	2/10/2015
	Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse?	2/10/2015
	Q&A Is Relapse Inevitable?	2/10/2015
	Q&A How can we Agree on Financial Safety?	2/10/2015
	Q&A (HFH) Am I Subconsciously Sabotaging my Marriage?	2/10/2015
	Q&A When is Physical Intimacy Ok?	2/10/2015
	Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself?	1/29/2015
	Q&A Can We Reclaim our Territory?	1/29/2015
	Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Spouse do all the Hard Work?	1/29/2015
	Q&A How Can I Be Safe With my Daughter Contacting my Husbands AP?	1/29/2015
	Q&A Looking for Hope	1/23/2015
	Q&A Is it Safe to Stay?	1/23/2015
	Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse?	1/23/2015
	Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness?	1/23/2015
	Q&A How to Handle Divorce as a Church Leader	1/23/2015
	Q&A Can I Leave Him?	1/23/2015
	Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?!	1/23/2015
	Q&A How do we Get to Ground Zero and end this Cycle?	1/23/2015
	Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do?	1/23/2015
	Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair?	1/23/2015
	Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict?	1/20/2015
	Q&A How do I Know if I Have Forgiven Enough Times?	1/20/2015
	Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do?	1/12/2015
	Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time?	1/12/2015
	Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again?	1/12/2015
	Q&A Should I Be Healed by Now?	1/12/2015
	Q&A Can We Recover From This?	1/06/2015
	Q&A (HFH) How Can I Break a Soul Tie with my Affair Partner?	1/06/2015
	Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing?	1/06/2015