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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
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	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Talk to Our Teen Children about Sex since They Know about the Affair?	2/07/2018
	Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Understand the Good Times Weren’t a Cover up for the Affair?	2/07/2018
	Q&A Is There Something I Should Have Done, or Should Do Now?	2/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Hang On?	2/07/2018
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward in Light of Relapse Type Behaviors?	2/07/2018
	Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery?	2/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I Can Sexually Re-Engage with My Mate?	2/07/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t See the Truth?	2/07/2018
	Q&A Is My Sex Drive Normal?	2/07/2018
	Q&A Can Hope Keep You Stuck in a Toxic Relationship?	2/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Find Hope and Redemption in Divorce?	1/31/2018
	Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation?	1/31/2018
	Q&A How Can We Heal without a Shared History?	1/31/2018
	Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do?	1/31/2018
	Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around?	1/31/2018
	Q&A Is Wanting to Have Make-Up Sex after an Intense Fight Normal?	1/31/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating?	1/31/2018
	Q&A How Do I Support My Mates Grieving Process?	1/31/2018
	Q&A I Think I'm Done...	1/31/2018
	Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again?	1/31/2018
	Q&A Did I Go too Far?	1/31/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible to Have Closure and, If So, What Does That Look Like?	1/23/2018
	Q&A Should I Be Concerned If My Mate Denies His Feelings?	1/23/2018
	Q&A At What Point Is the Marriage So Broken, That There's No Hope of Recovery?	1/23/2018
	Q&A How Do We Start over without Reviewing the Past?	1/23/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent?	1/23/2018
	Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation?	1/23/2018
	Q&A When Does It Get Better?	1/23/2018
	Q&A How Do You Reclaim the Losses from the Affair?	1/23/2018
	Q&A Should I Separate from My Mate?	1/23/2018
	Q&A How Long Does It Take to Come out of Limerence?	1/23/2018
	Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling?	1/23/2018
	Q&A Should I Consider Another Separation?	1/23/2018
	Q&A I Feel Wrung out, How Do I Move Forward?	1/23/2018
	Q&A Are There Affairs That Aren't Limerent Affairs?	1/23/2018
	Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future?	1/23/2018
	Q&A How Big of a Part Did Alcohol Play in All of This?	1/23/2018
	Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse?	1/23/2018
	Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb?	1/23/2018
	Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'?	1/23/2018
	Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair?	1/23/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know?	1/23/2018
	Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You?	1/22/2018
	Q&A Why Do We Choose to Stay with Someone Who Has Wounded Us So Deeply?	1/22/2018
	Q&A Why Do I Feel The Way That I Do?	1/22/2018
	Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery?	1/22/2018
	Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Think about the Affair Partner?	1/22/2018
	Q&A Are There Any Tools or Strategies to Help Overcome The ‘Addiction’ of the AP?	1/22/2018
	Q&A Do I File for Divorce to Protect Myself and Possibly Wake Her Up?	1/22/2018
	Q&A Why Is the Unfaithful Trying to Take Advantage?	1/22/2018