Why They Did It The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How to Survive Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 373 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A How can I Manage my Anger in a Healthy Way? 6/09/2015 Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse? 4/15/2015 Q&A What is Going Through His Mind? 3/31/2015 Q&A How do I Know my Husband's True Feelings? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Come to Grips that my Husband Thought he was In Love With Someone Else? 3/20/2015 Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can Women Compartmentalize as Men do? 2/20/2015 Q&A How do I Get to the Truth? 2/20/2015 Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?! 1/23/2015 Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time? 1/12/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing? 1/06/2015 Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me? 12/19/2014 Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014 Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? 12/15/2014 Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014 Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All? 12/11/2014 Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful? 12/10/2014 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 4/17/2013 Achieving Real Change, part 4 1/01/2013 Pages« first‹ previous12345678