All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Problem with Forgiveness Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups 5036 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can you Help me Understand Men and Intimacy Avoidance? 2/08/2017 Q&A He Desires the Affair Partner but is Choosing me Because it's the Right Thing to do. What do I do with that? 2/08/2017 Q&A Should I Actively Fight my Apathy Towards my Husband or Will it Break Down Naturally? 2/08/2017 Q&A Could you Share Your Story? 2/08/2017 Q&A What can I Expect in Regards to my Wife Changing her Negative Historical Lens of Our Marriage? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Move Past Knowing that My Wife Shared our Marital Bed with Another Man and he Shared His with Her? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Effectively Set a No Touch Boundary with My Husband? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Move Past the Fact that I May Not Have Full Disclosure? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Set Boundaries Without Fear of Him Returning to the Affair Partner? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Disclose to my Unfaithful Husband that I'm Leaving? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Let go of my Desire to See Him Suffer and Broken? 2/08/2017 Q&A How Could he go from Loving Her and Hating Me to Loving Me and Hating Her? 2/08/2017 The Valentine’s Day After Syndrome 2/08/2017 Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise? 2/02/2017 Q&A Do you Plan to Update the Married for Life Curriculum Soon? 2/02/2017 Q&A Thankful my Skeletons are All Out, But Where do I go from Here? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can I Change my Negative Thoughts Before Launching into Anger? 2/02/2017 Q&A How do Our Children and I Cope While Waiting for Him to Choose Us? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can I Stop my Victim Thinking and Take Ownership for my Issues? 1/24/2017 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Show Compassion for an Unempathetic Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017 Q&A What is it that I'm Sacrificing as the Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation? 1/24/2017 Q&A How can I Move Past the Humiliation and Shame of Being Betrayed? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do we Respond to bad Dreams that Cause Triggers and Flooding? 1/24/2017 Q&A Is it Time to Move Forward so He Doesn't Hold me Back? 1/24/2017 Q&A I Want Sex but Not with my Spouse; Will a Separation Help? 1/18/2017 Q&A Can We Find Fresh Love Again? 1/18/2017 Q&A Would it be Best Overall if we Divorced so he Could Pursue his Affair Partner? 1/18/2017 Q&A How do we Start an Accountability Group? 1/11/2017 Q&A What can I do in the Mean Time to Change how I Feel? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can I Show my Wife I'm Trying to Learn Empathy? 1/11/2017 Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict? 1/11/2017 Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying? 1/11/2017 Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up? 1/11/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors? 1/11/2017 Q&A After his Affair, he Changed and now does Everything Right. Why do I Feel so Empty? 1/11/2017 Q&A Why Did I Have an Affair? Was I My True Self During My Affair? 1/11/2017 Q&A If I Don't Believe I Have the Truth about the Affair, is there any Hope? 1/11/2017 Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness? 12/20/2016 Q&A When is the Best Time to Bring up Hurt Feelings? 12/20/2016 Q&A Is Forgiveness my Issue? 12/20/2016 Q&A How Can I Prepare for the Holidays and Anniversary After My Wife has Left the Marriage? 12/20/2016 Q&A Why is his Anger Growing and How Can I Help? 12/20/2016 Q&A How do I Get my Spouse to Understand my Need for Full Disclosure? The Affair is Ongoing. 12/20/2016 Q&A Why is she Acting this Way? Should we Work on the Marital Issues Instead of the Infidelity? 12/20/2016 Q&A Why would he Cause me and His Affair Partner to be so Close Together? 12/20/2016 Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On? 12/20/2016 Q&A What Type of Affair is This? 12/20/2016 Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. 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