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Type	Title	Posted
	The Story that Started Affair Recovery	2/24/2016
	Q&A Rick, Did I Really Have an Affair?	2/23/2016
	Q&A Any Practical Advice for Our Cycle?	2/23/2016
	Q&A How Can I Get Past What He Did?	2/23/2016
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Intimacy Anorexia?	2/23/2016
	Q&A Do Others Struggle in This Way?	2/23/2016
	Q&A Is Masturbation Without Porn Wrong?	2/23/2016
	Q&A To Ask or Not to Ask?	2/23/2016
	A Protocol for Reminders	2/17/2016
	Q&A Does This Affect How We Address Recovery?	2/16/2016
	Q&A Do I Share This, or Suck it Up?	2/16/2016
	Q&A Please Tell Me, What Else Can I Do?	2/16/2016
	Q&A Are We in False Recovery?	2/16/2016
	Q&A Is this the AP's Manipulation?	2/09/2016
	Q&A How Much Change is Possible?	2/09/2016
	Q&A Can a Sex Addict With This History be a Danger to Their Own Children?	2/09/2016
	Q&A To Share or Not to Share Pet Peeves?	2/09/2016
	Q&A Are There any Interventions you Suggest?	2/09/2016
	Q&A Should we Both Make Changes to be Safe?	2/09/2016
	Q&A Should we Discuss Her Resentments Toward me?	2/09/2016
	Q&A Would it be Wise to Stop Asking Questions Now?	2/09/2016
	Q&A Am I Wrong for Making Him do This?	2/09/2016
	Q&A Is There an Alternative to EMDR?	2/09/2016
	Surviving Infidelity: How Do You Handle The Disclosure Process?	2/09/2016
	Q&A What's Reasonable to Make Me Feel Safe?	2/02/2016
	Q&A When Does Transparency Apply or Not Apply?	2/02/2016
	Q&A What is Your Opinion of Detachment in Recovery?	2/02/2016
	Q&A What Should I Change to Get Out of My Rut?	2/02/2016
	Q&A Is She Choosing Not to Love Me?	2/02/2016
	Q&A What is Your Take on This Statement?	2/02/2016
	Q&A Is it Possible to Get Beyond This Level of Deception and Infidelity?	2/02/2016
	Q&A How Do I Get Rid of the Feeling of Him Making Me Dirty?	2/02/2016
	Q&A What if I Never Get the Apology My Heart Desire?	2/02/2016
	Q&A Why Doesn't He Cry?	2/02/2016
	Q&A Can I Feel Safe?	2/02/2016
	Surviving Infidelity: Avoid These Common Mistakes	1/27/2016
	Q&A How Can I Manage the Relationships With My In-Laws?	1/26/2016
	Q&A Is Their Friendship Okay?	1/26/2016
	Q&A What Kind of Affair Was it? Does it Matter?	1/26/2016
	Q&A How Do We Reclaim These Locations?	1/26/2016
	Q&A Will Our Story Ever Be Beneficial to Share?	1/26/2016
	Q&A Is She Addicted to a Narcissist?	1/26/2016
	Q&A How Can I Handle Her Flooding?	1/26/2016
	Q&A What's Left to Do at This Point?	1/26/2016
	Q&A What is the Red Light, Yellow Light, and Green Light Exercise?	1/26/2016
	Q&A Could you Describe What Entails a Polygraph?	1/21/2016
	Q&A How Can We Get Out of This Limbo?	1/21/2016
	Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety?	1/21/2016
	Q&A Is There Another Solution Besides God for My Husband?	1/21/2016
	Q&A Is Harboring Hope Right for Me?	1/21/2016