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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Am I Being Unrealistic for Wanting to Have a More Loving, Satisfying, Sex Life after Infidelity?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Is Sharing Triggers with Our Partner Counter Productive?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Can You Help You Explain the Difference between Infidelity Trauma or PTSD and Clinical Depression?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Why Do I Want to Indulge in Thoughts of the Other Women?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Does Affair Recovery Blame the Betrayed Spouse?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Could There Really Be Such a Thing as a Midlife Crisis Affair?	3/09/2021
	Q&A How Do We Move on with Long Standing Resentments?	3/09/2021
	Q&A What Is My Husband's Addiction?	3/04/2021
	Q&A What Is She Ambivalent about If There Was No Emotional Attachment to the Affair Partner?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Is There a Video on the “Do's and Don'ts” for Helping Someone Who Is Suffering While Going through the Trauma of Infidelity?	3/04/2021
	Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain?	3/04/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Reaction in This Situation?	3/04/2021
	Q&A What Steps Can I Take to Learn to Trust Again?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Is His Inability to Recall Details of the Affair Normal?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Could Postpartum Depression Lead to an Affair?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Is My Spouse's Attitude Preventing Limerence from Fading?	3/04/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Shame over My Husband's Thoughts?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Can I Ever Feel Love Again for Her If I'm Feeling Trapped in This Marriage?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Can Cuddling with His Roommate Be Platonic?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Can You Go into More Detail about the 'Lonely Hearts Club' Affair?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy?	3/04/2021
	Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for the Ways I Reacted as the Betrayed?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Is Being Immature or a Pastors Kid a Legitimate Reason for Making This Mistake?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Why Is My Ex-Husband Now Playing the Victim?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery?	3/04/2021
	Q&A What Is Attacking Classified As?	2/23/2021
	Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story?	2/23/2021
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed?	2/23/2021
	Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship?	2/11/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life?	2/11/2021
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing?	2/11/2021
	Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions?	1/28/2021
	Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior?	1/28/2021
	Q&A Am I Abnormal for Struggling with Healing?	1/28/2021
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Reclaiming Things Associated with the Affair?	1/28/2021
	Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself?	1/28/2021
	Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information?	1/28/2021
	Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Three Stages of Love?	1/28/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal with the Conflict inside of Me?	1/25/2021
	Q&A How Soon Is Too Soon to Let Yourself Forgive, Hope, and Rebuild?	1/25/2021
	Q&A What Happens If I or Both My Husband and I Run into the Affair Partner in Public?	1/25/2021
	Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors?	1/25/2021
	Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries?	1/20/2021