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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Can you Offer some Advice for Our Complex Situation?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can I Work Through the Difficulties Regarding my Husband Leaving me for his Affair Partner?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can I Regain Positive Feelings Towards the Man Who Betrayed Me?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can Our Marriage Heal When Mental Illness Prevents Rational Affair Related Conversations?	2/08/2017
	Q&A What Would you Suggest for Us to Reconnect Emotionally?	2/08/2017
	Q&A What can I do Now that I Feel Doomed to an Unfulfilled Married Life?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Can you Help me Understand Men and Intimacy Avoidance?	2/08/2017
	Q&A He Desires the Affair Partner but is Choosing me Because it's the Right Thing to do. What do I do with that?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Should I Actively Fight my Apathy Towards my Husband or Will it Break Down Naturally?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Could you Share Your Story?	2/08/2017
	Q&A What can I Expect in Regards to my Wife Changing her Negative Historical Lens of Our Marriage?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How do I Move Past Knowing that My Wife Shared our Marital Bed with Another Man and he Shared His with Her?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can I Effectively Set a No Touch Boundary with My Husband?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How do I Move Past the Fact that I May Not Have Full Disclosure?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can I Set Boundaries Without Fear of Him Returning to the Affair Partner?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How do I Disclose to my Unfaithful Husband that I'm Leaving?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How do I Let go of my Desire to See Him Suffer and Broken?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How Could he go from Loving Her and Hating Me to Loving Me and Hating Her?	2/08/2017
	The Valentine’s Day After Syndrome	2/08/2017
	Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise?	2/02/2017
	Q&A Do you Plan to Update the Married for Life Curriculum Soon?	2/02/2017
	Q&A Thankful my Skeletons are All Out, But Where do I go from Here?	2/02/2017
	Q&A How can I Change my Negative Thoughts Before Launching into Anger?	2/02/2017
	Q&A How do Our Children and I Cope While Waiting for Him to Choose Us?	2/02/2017
	Q&A How can I Stop my Victim Thinking and Take Ownership for my Issues?	1/24/2017
	Q&A What is it that I'm Sacrificing as the Unfaithful Spouse?	1/24/2017
	Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Show Compassion for an Unempathetic Unfaithful Spouse?	1/24/2017
	Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation?	1/24/2017
	Q&A How can I Move Past the Humiliation and Shame of Being Betrayed?	1/24/2017
	Q&A How do we Respond to bad Dreams that Cause Triggers and Flooding?	1/24/2017
	Q&A Is it Time to Move Forward so He Doesn't Hold me Back?	1/24/2017
	Q&A I Want Sex but Not with my Spouse; Will a Separation Help?	1/18/2017
	Q&A Can We Find Fresh Love Again?	1/18/2017
	Q&A Would it be Best Overall if we Divorced so he Could Pursue his Affair Partner?	1/18/2017
	Q&A How do we Start an Accountability Group?	1/11/2017
	Q&A What can I do in the Mean Time to Change how I Feel?	1/11/2017
	Q&A How can I Show my Wife I'm Trying to Learn Empathy?	1/11/2017
	Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict?	1/11/2017
	Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him?	1/11/2017
	Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying?	1/11/2017
	Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up?	1/11/2017
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors?	1/11/2017
	Q&A After his Affair, he Changed and now does Everything Right. Why do I Feel so Empty?	1/11/2017
	Q&A Why Did I Have an Affair? Was I My True Self During My Affair?	1/11/2017
	Q&A If I Don't Believe I Have the Truth about the Affair, is there any Hope?	1/11/2017
	Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness?	12/20/2016
	Q&A When is the Best Time to Bring up Hurt Feelings?	12/20/2016
	Q&A Is Forgiveness my Issue?	12/20/2016
	Q&A How Can I Prepare for the Holidays and Anniversary After My Wife has Left the Marriage?	12/20/2016
	Q&A Why is his Anger Growing and How Can I Help?	12/20/2016