All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 4970 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Okay That I Now Want to End Our Marriage and Move On? 3/05/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Approach Divorce in This Situation? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Change My Perspective of My Mate? 3/05/2018 Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Do We Overcome Our Sexual Barriers? 2/28/2018 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Us? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do We Show Commitment without Making False Vows or Promises? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Guilt for Ending the Marriage? 2/28/2018 Q&A Is Pre-Mature Ejaculation an Indication of Shame from an Ongoing Affair? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That What He Feels for Me Is Real? 2/28/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Safe? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Reclaim What Has Been Lost? 2/28/2018 Q&A Could This Affair Really Be the Best Thing That’s Ever Happened to Us? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Intense Emotions? 2/28/2018 Q&A How Can Family and Friends Support Us during Recovery? 2/28/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 Q&A Is It Possible for a Person to Truly Love Two Different People? 2/21/2018 Q&A Should I Let My Wife Know Her Affair Partner Has Had Another Affair? 2/21/2018 Q&A Should I Express My Emotions? 2/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Get over the Hate for the Other Woman? 2/21/2018 Q&A How Do We Decide Where to Go from Here? 2/21/2018 Q&A Why Does My Husband Seek Validation? 2/21/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Process This? 2/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Express My Pain in a Safe Way? 2/21/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Am Being Held Captive? 2/21/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A What Steps Should I Take for Personal Healing? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is Our Sex Drive Physical or Emotional? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do We Address the Affair without It Being so Negative? 2/14/2018 Q&A Can the Unfaithful Really Not Have an Answer to the 'Why'? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is It Common for Affairs to Start in the Midst of Traumatic Events? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Does the Affair Partner Have Any Right to Happiness? 2/14/2018 Q&A Do Couples Really Get Better? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Altered View of My Unfaithful Wife? 2/14/2018 Q&A Are Affairs the Direct Result of Marital Deficits? 2/14/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Go Places Where My Husband Has Taken His AP for Secret Sexual or Relational Contact? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Could He Be so Loving and Romantic Toward the AP? 2/14/2018 Q&A What Does Accepting My Sex and Validation Addicted Spouse's Infidelity Look Like? 2/14/2018 Q&A Should We Try to Save the Marriage? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Addiction to Saving Her? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Support My Mate without Crossing the Line of Being Co-Dependent? 2/14/2018 Q&A What Do I Do with Intense Thoughts during Sexual Interactions? 2/14/2018 Q&A What Do We Do about STD's and Sex? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do You Heal When Dealing with a Narcissist? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is It Acceptable Behavior for My Husband to Have a Female Friend? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with On-Going D-Days? 2/14/2018 Q&A Has Our Recovery Started over Again? 2/14/2018 Q&A When Will I Feel like a Person of Value Again? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husbands Fantasy Attraction? 2/14/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…495051525354555657…next ›last »