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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Could My Husband Be a Sex Addict?	1/09/2024
	Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions?	1/09/2024
	Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me?	1/09/2024
	Q&A If a Person Is Taking Medications and Has Gone Thru 6 Rounds of Chemo before Taking a Polygraph, Could This Give a False Reading?	1/09/2024
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger?	1/09/2024
	Q&A Can You Clarify What It Looks Like for Someone to Go into the Pre-contemplative and Contemplative Stage after a Relapse?	1/09/2024
	Common Mistakes Made When Recovering from Infidelity	12/27/2023
	Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends?	12/12/2023
	Who is the Other Woman?	12/06/2023
	Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy	11/28/2023
	Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair?	11/28/2023
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried?	11/28/2023
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community?	11/28/2023
	Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning?	11/28/2023
	Q&A What Traits Should We Look For in an Accountability Partner?	11/28/2023
	Q&A Are There Support Groups Specifically for Recovery from Both Infidelity and Alcoholism?	11/28/2023
	Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery	11/22/2023
	Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability?	10/24/2023
	Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship?	10/23/2023
	Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself?	10/23/2023
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working?	10/23/2023
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD?	10/23/2023
	Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me?	10/23/2023
	Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable?	10/23/2023
	Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?	10/23/2023
	Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me?	10/23/2023
	The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope	10/18/2023
	Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known	10/11/2023
	Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery	10/04/2023
	Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment?	9/29/2023
	Q&A How Do I Get My Conflict-Avoidant Spouse to Do Anything?	9/29/2023
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long?	9/29/2023
	The Importance of Wisdom Following Infidelity	9/27/2023
	Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders	9/20/2023
	How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair?	9/13/2023
	Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love?	9/12/2023
	Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me?	9/12/2023
	Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me?	9/12/2023
	The Fight to Forgive	8/30/2023
	A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure	8/16/2023
	Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded?	8/15/2023
	Q&A What Would Be Best for His Healing and Our Reconciliation?	8/15/2023
	Q&A How Do You Begin to Sift through the Wreckage after an Affair and Determine the Value of What Was Lost?	8/15/2023
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace?	8/15/2023
	Q&A Is It Possible to Not Love or Miss Someone after a 3-Year Affair?	8/15/2023
	Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery?	8/15/2023
	Q&A What If I Question Whether I Want to Be Married or Not?	8/15/2023
	Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?	8/15/2023
	Q&A At This Point I Just Rather Not Have Sex at All. Is There Something That I Can Do to Change This?	8/15/2023
	My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now?	8/09/2023