For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Problem with Forgiveness Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 1299 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain? 1/08/2018 Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity? 12/06/2017 Q&A When Is Enough, Enough? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain? 11/28/2017 Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017 Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again? 11/28/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain? 11/22/2017 Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner? 11/22/2017 Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage? 11/22/2017 Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017 Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger? 11/10/2017 Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'? 11/10/2017 Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? 11/10/2017 Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss? 11/01/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret? 11/01/2017 Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017 Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend? 10/25/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage? 10/25/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425next ›last »
