For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1292 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain? 11/28/2017 Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017 Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again? 11/28/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain? 11/22/2017 Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner? 11/22/2017 Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage? 11/22/2017 Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017 Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger? 11/10/2017 Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'? 11/10/2017 Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? 11/10/2017 Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss? 11/01/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret? 11/01/2017 Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017 Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend? 10/25/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact? 10/25/2017 Q&A Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Am I in a Phase? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference? 10/25/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425next ›last »
