For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me?
Video icon Q&A Could He Really Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See My Husband the Same Way?
Video icon Q&A Is It Okay That I Now Want to End Our Marriage and Move On?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Approach Divorce in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Reclaim What Has Been Lost?
Text icon Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling
Text icon How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Go Places Where My Husband Has Taken His AP for Secret Sexual or Relational Contact?
Video icon Q&A How Could He Be so Loving and Romantic Toward the AP?
Video icon Q&A What Does Accepting My Sex and Validation Addicted Spouse's Infidelity Look Like?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Addiction to Saving Her?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Support My Mate without Crossing the Line of Being Co-Dependent?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with On-Going D-Days?
Video icon Q&A When Will I Feel like a Person of Value Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husbands Fantasy Attraction?
Video icon Q&A What Happens When the Unfaithful Shows No Effort?
Video icon Q&A Why Was I so Interchangeable and Replaceable?
Video icon Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses
Video icon Q&A Is There Something I Should Have Done, or Should Do Now?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I Can Sexually Re-Engage with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t See the Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Support My Mates Grieving Process?
Video icon Q&A I Think I'm Done...
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again?
Video icon Q&A Did I Go too Far?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent?
Video icon Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A Should I Separate from My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Should I Consider Another Separation?
Video icon Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future?
Video icon Q&A How Big of a Part Did Alcohol Play in All of This?
Video icon Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know?
Video icon Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You?
Video icon Q&A Why Do We Choose to Stay with Someone Who Has Wounded Us So Deeply?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Feel The Way That I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Think about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Are There Any Tools or Strategies to Help Overcome The ‘Addiction’ of the AP?
Video icon Q&A Do I File for Divorce to Protect Myself and Possibly Wake Her Up?
Video icon Q&A Why Is the Unfaithful Trying to Take Advantage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome Being Repulsed by My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does It Take the Unfaithful to Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words?