For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A Should I Separate from My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Should I Consider Another Separation?
Video icon Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future?
Video icon Q&A How Big of a Part Did Alcohol Play in All of This?
Video icon Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know?
Video icon Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You?
Video icon Q&A Why Do We Choose to Stay with Someone Who Has Wounded Us So Deeply?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Feel The Way That I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Think about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Are There Any Tools or Strategies to Help Overcome The ‘Addiction’ of the AP?
Video icon Q&A Do I File for Divorce to Protect Myself and Possibly Wake Her Up?
Video icon Q&A Why Is the Unfaithful Trying to Take Advantage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome Being Repulsed by My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does It Take the Unfaithful to Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do?”
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce?
Video icon Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again?
Video icon Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain?
Video icon Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A When Is Enough, Enough?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain?
Video icon Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head?
Video icon Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain?
Video icon Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married?
Video icon Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me?
Video icon Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger?