Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? 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Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 568 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents? 7/06/2018 Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing? 6/27/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery? 6/27/2018 Q&A Can You Give Us Guidance on Reaching Full Disclosure? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 5/18/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law? 5/16/2018 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Long Can This Process Take and What, If Anything, Should I Be Doing Differently? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Heal from All of the Secrets My Husband Kept from Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 4/25/2018 Q&A How Can I Reach Full Disclosure While Protecting Myself from Intrusive Thoughts? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A Should We Tell Our Parents about the Infidelity? 3/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Appropriately Describe What Is Happening to My Teenage Children? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle This Relapse? 3/12/2018 Q&A How Do People Heal from Betrayal? 3/12/2018 Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Can Flooding Present Itself Physically? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is It Normal for Sexual Interactions to Change after Discovery? 3/12/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A How Do We Address the Affair without It Being so Negative? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Deceit? 2/14/2018 Q&A What’s the Best Way to Process with My Mate? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A Should I Reveal My Spouse's Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal without a Shared History? 1/31/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A Do I Force Him to Get Paternity Test? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage? 12/20/2017 Q&A Would a Lie Detector Test Help or Hurt? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Should Someone Disclose the Use of Pornography? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »