Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 539 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can Flooding Present Itself Physically? 3/12/2018 Q&A Is It Normal for Sexual Interactions to Change after Discovery? 3/12/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A How Do We Address the Affair without It Being so Negative? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Deceit? 2/14/2018 Q&A What’s the Best Way to Process with My Mate? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A Should I Reveal My Spouse's Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal without a Shared History? 1/31/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A Do I Force Him to Get Paternity Test? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member? 12/20/2017 Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage? 12/20/2017 Q&A Would a Lie Detector Test Help or Hurt? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Should Someone Disclose the Use of Pornography? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Far Back Should We Go? 9/27/2017 What Really Happens at EMS Weekend? 9/14/2017 Q&A How Can the Betrayed Handle Triggers during Reconciliation? 9/06/2017 Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online 8/30/2017 Q&A Should I Inform the AP's Spouse about Their Affair? 8/18/2017 Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Take a Lie Detector Test? 8/16/2017 Q&A Can You Suggest Some Exercises to Help with Honesty after Betrayal? 8/11/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with Polygraph Results Such as This? 8/10/2017 Q&A Can We Recover from This? 8/02/2017 Q&A When Do We Stop Looking for Details and Move Forward? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Can I Get Answers from My Mate? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories? 7/19/2017 Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything? 7/19/2017 Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome? 7/19/2017 Q&A Are My Requests Unreasonable? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand? 7/12/2017 Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017 Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. 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