Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 562 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Far Back Should We Go? 9/27/2017 What Really Happens at EMS Weekend? 9/14/2017 Q&A How Can the Betrayed Handle Triggers during Reconciliation? 9/06/2017 Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online 8/30/2017 Q&A Should I Inform the AP's Spouse about Their Affair? 8/18/2017 Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Take a Lie Detector Test? 8/16/2017 Q&A Can You Suggest Some Exercises to Help with Honesty after Betrayal? 8/11/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with Polygraph Results Such as This? 8/10/2017 Q&A Can We Recover from This? 8/02/2017 Q&A When Do We Stop Looking for Details and Move Forward? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Can I Get Answers from My Mate? 8/02/2017 Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories? 7/19/2017 Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything? 7/19/2017 Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome? 7/19/2017 Q&A Are My Requests Unreasonable? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand? 7/12/2017 Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017 Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal? 7/12/2017 Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A Why Am I So Troubled by the Sexual Aspect of the Affair? 6/28/2017 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies? 6/28/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Recovery When We Are Both the Betrayed and the Unfaithful? 6/07/2017 Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History 5/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal without the Details of My Wife's Affair? 5/26/2017 Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail? 5/24/2017 Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity? 5/24/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Wayward Spouse to Admit Things at D-Day and Then Retract Them? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse? 5/10/2017 Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017 Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate? 5/10/2017 Q&A If I Learn There Were More People Than I Initially Thought, Does My Healing Process Begin Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero? 5/03/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…34567891011next ›last »
