Handling Discovery
We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.
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569 Resources : Handling Discovery
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Video Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started? 10/25/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery? 10/05/2017
Video Q&A How Far Back Should We Go? 9/27/2017
Text What Really Happens at EMS Weekend? 9/14/2017
Video Q&A How Can the Betrayed Handle Triggers during Reconciliation? 9/06/2017
Text Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online 8/30/2017
Video Q&A Should I Inform the AP's Spouse about Their Affair? 8/18/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Take a Lie Detector Test? 8/16/2017
Video Q&A Can You Suggest Some Exercises to Help with Honesty after Betrayal? 8/11/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with Polygraph Results Such as This? 8/10/2017
Video Q&A Can We Recover from This? 8/02/2017
Video Q&A When Do We Stop Looking for Details and Move Forward? 8/02/2017
Video Q&A How Can I Get Answers from My Mate? 8/02/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories? 7/19/2017
Video Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything? 7/19/2017
Video Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome? 7/19/2017
Video Q&A Are My Requests Unreasonable? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair? 7/12/2017
Video Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017
Video Q&A Why Am I So Troubled by the Sexual Aspect of the Affair? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies? 6/28/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Recovery When We Are Both the Betrayed and the Unfaithful? 6/07/2017
Video Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History 5/26/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Heal without the Details of My Wife's Affair? 5/26/2017
Video Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change? 5/24/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail? 5/24/2017
Video Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity? 5/24/2017
Video What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017
Video Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did? 5/17/2017
Video Q&A Is It Normal for the Wayward Spouse to Admit Things at D-Day and Then Retract Them? 5/17/2017
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details? 5/17/2017

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