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Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 4970 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Too Early to Start to Learn about Ourselves, the Recovery Process, and Grow? 6/03/2020 Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Hope Is There to Restoring a Marriage That Has Been a Lie from the Beginning? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is This Normal Affair Behavior or a Sexual Addiction? 6/03/2020 Q&A Approximately How Long Should the Reaction Task Last? 6/03/2020 Is It Normal? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Flooding When I Feel My Own Emotions Are Overwhelming? 5/28/2020 Q&A Are Intrusive Suicidal Thoughts Common? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband Becoming Extremely Controlling? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Intrusive Thoughts on My Actions? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Stay Calm While Talking about the Affair? 5/28/2020 Q&A Is There Any Way to Convince My Mate That I'm Not Emotionally Connected to My Affair Partner? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do We Change a Destructive Pattern in Our Marriage? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Avoid Relapse? 5/28/2020 Q&A Is There a Difference between Reason and Justification? 5/28/2020 Q&A Will the Triggers and Reminders Return? 5/28/2020 Q&A Has Affair Recovery Considered a Bible Study for Those Struggling with Their Identity and Relationship with Christ? 5/28/2020 Q&A Is My Request for Confrontation Reasonable? 5/28/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Boundaries Can I Put in Place That Don’t Sound like Ultimatums? 5/28/2020 Q&A Please Explain in More Detail What Rick Means by His Suggestion? 5/19/2020 Q&A Can past Depression or PTSD Affect the Ability to Show Empathy? 5/19/2020 Q&A How Do the Processes for Recovery and Relapse Prevention Differ for Sex Addicts? 5/19/2020 Q&A What Is a Healthy Boundary for Alcohol in This Situation? 5/07/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about Our Disclosure Process? 5/07/2020 Q&A How Do We Heal without Full Disclosure? 5/07/2020 Q&A What If You Feel the Wayward Spouse Is Not Telling the Whole Truth during the Telling of Their Story? 5/07/2020 Q&A Is Ringing in the Ears Normal? 5/07/2020 Q&A Should the Lack of Safety Be a Deal Breaker for Recovery? 5/07/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wife Drinks and Get so Angry? 5/07/2020 Q&A How Can I, as the Wayward Spouse, Help My Wife to Come to Accept Her Reality? 4/30/2020 Q&A What Is the Process for Dealing with Raw Spots? 4/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Salvage a Relationship with Two Best Friends Who Are Distancing Themselves from Me? 4/30/2020 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Managing My Emotions during Recovery? 4/30/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Husband from Continuously Shutting Down? 4/30/2020 Q&A Where Is the Empathy for Me? 4/30/2020 Q&A Do I Stay Separated or Divorce If This Never Changes? 4/28/2020 Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Special Again? 4/28/2020 Q&A What Are Your Suggestions When It’s Hard to Trust? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Comfortable Being in a Place with My Husband without Searching for Women Whom I Know Fit His Sexual Criteria? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will This Ever Get Better and How Can I Help Myself to Recover This Part of My Marriage? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Make the Hard Decision to Stay or Move on after All These Years? 4/28/2020 Q&A Why Am I Having an Emotional Reaction When My Spouse Shows Interest in Things Besides Recovery? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Maintain Recovery During Times of Crisis? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner? 4/28/2020 Q&A Can I Trust This as Real Change or Just Further Manipulation? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns? 4/28/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…202122232425262728…next ›last »
