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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Do You Recommend in My Situation?	8/16/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Take a Lie Detector Test?	8/16/2017
	Q&A Will I Get through Post Affair Anger or Is Moving Away the Best Answer?	8/16/2017
	Q&A Can You Explain EMSO Week 7 in More Detail?	8/16/2017
	Q&A How Do I Regain a Sense of Safety after His Relapse?	8/16/2017
	Q&A How Do You Handle Being at a Different Stage of Grief Than Your Partner?	8/16/2017
	Q&A Can You Suggest Some Exercises to Help with Honesty after Betrayal?	8/11/2017
	Q&A How Can We De-Escalate Our Toxic Fights?	8/11/2017
	Q&A Why Would They Not End an Affair Because of the Affair Partner's Feelings?	8/11/2017
	Q&A What Should My Next Step Be?	8/11/2017
	Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Maintain My Boundaries and File for Divorce?	8/11/2017
	Q&A What is the Dynamic of the Relationship between Your Ex-Spouses and Their Affair Partners?	8/10/2017
	Q&A What Am I Doing Wrong Here?	8/10/2017
	Q&A What Do You Do When Your Spouse Is Withholding from You?	8/10/2017
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Polygraph Results Such as This?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All?	8/10/2017
	Q&A When Can We Focus on the Affair Rather Than Problems in the Marriage?	8/10/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help Me with My Anxiety about the Affair Partner?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Is Harboring Hope a Step Backwards for Me and My Marriage?	8/10/2017
	Q&A How Would You Describe the Difference between Regret and Remorse?	8/10/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle the Challenges of Sexual Intimacy after D-Day?	8/10/2017
	Q&A How Long Should I Expect Her to Show No Emotions towards Me and Our Marriage?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Should I Respond to the Affair Partner's Letter to Me?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Can You Elaborate on What You Mean by the Unfaithful Partner Often Affairs Down?	8/10/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Get over the Affair Even Though My Husband Is Doing All the Work to Rebuild?	8/10/2017
	Q&A What Does Acceptance Look Like and How Do I Reach It?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Let Go?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Is This Co-Dependency?	8/02/2017
	Q&A What Resources Do You Suggest for Emotional Trauma?	8/02/2017
	Q&A How Do We Break through Poor Communication Habits?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Move Forward?	8/02/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Emotions towards the Affair Partner?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Can We Recover from This?	8/02/2017
	Q&A What Does Healing Look Like for a Betrayed Husband?	8/02/2017
	Q&A When Do We Stop Looking for Details and Move Forward?	8/02/2017
	Q&A How Do I Reconcile These Opposing Views?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Could Someone Really Think This?	8/02/2017
	Q&A How Can I Get Answers from My Mate?	8/02/2017
	Q&A Why Did My Mate Act Differently with the Affair Partner?	8/02/2017
	Laverne and Lischia's Mentor Video	8/01/2017
	Q&A Can He Be Safe for Me If He Continues to Use Porn?	7/26/2017
	Q&A Am I Pushing Her Away by Wanting Her Too Much?	7/26/2017
	Q&A What Does My Mate Need to Feel Safe?	7/26/2017
	Q&A Would It Be worth Shifting the Format of EMS Weekend?	7/26/2017
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?	7/26/2017
	Q&A Did My Choices Contribute to the Affair?	7/26/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible to Love Your Spouse and Have a Long Term Affair?	7/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger?	7/26/2017
	Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers?	7/26/2017