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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Could These Be Contributing Factors to My Husband's Acting Out?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Am I Wrong in My Thinking?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible He Is Being Honest?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Am I Becoming Codependent and Is This a Bad Thing?	5/08/2019
	Q&A What Boundaries Would You Recommend upon Reconciliation?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle the Affair Partner's Continued Intrusion in Our Life?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Do I Overcome My Dependence on My Mates Affirmation?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Can Depression Adversely Effect the Recovery Process?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Mate Shifting the Blame to Me?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Is It Safe to Believe My Mate?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Have I Made a 'Deal Breaker' Decision?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe with Multiple Online Accounts?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Should We Stay in the Marriage for the Kids?	4/30/2019
	Q&A What Are Healthy Ways for the Wayward to Grieve Losing the Affair Partner?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person?	4/30/2019
	Q&A If We Married for the Wrong Reason Should the Marriage Be Saved?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed End up Having Revenge Affairs?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her?	4/30/2019
	Q&A What Happens If I'm Not Seeing Remorse?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Recovery Timeline?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Can I Recover from an Abusive Affair Partner?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Am I Being to Harsh with My Wayward Husband?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Why Did My Mate Grow Distant Again?	4/17/2019
	Q&A Could the Marriage Have Gotten Better Even While My Mate Is Acting Out?	4/17/2019
	Q&A Is This Relationship worth Keeping?	4/17/2019
	Q&A Is It Time to Walk Away?	4/17/2019
	Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency?	4/17/2019
	Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This?	4/17/2019
	Q&A How Do You Address Your Wounds While at the Same Time Feeling Remorse for Your Mate?	4/17/2019
	Q&A What Does the Betrayed Mean When They Say They Need the Wayward to Help Them Heal?	4/12/2019
	Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage?	4/10/2019
	Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When Children Are Involved?	4/10/2019
	Q&A How Do You Know When You're Done?	4/10/2019
	Q&A Are My Expectations Reasonable?	4/10/2019
	Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband That It Is Time to Tell Our Son?	4/10/2019
	Q&A When Do You Give up on the Marriage?	4/10/2019
	Q&A Is My Husband in a Phase-Two Affair?	4/10/2019
	Q&A Should We Attend EMS Weekend If Our Divorce Is Pending?	4/10/2019
	Q&A What Should I Do?	4/10/2019
	Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair?	4/10/2019