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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Do I Do Without Honesty?	6/03/2016
	Q&A Is Waiting for Remorse a Fool's Errand?	6/03/2016
	Q&A In What Ways Can I Transform the Pain?	6/03/2016
	Q&A What Are the Requirements to Become a Leader?	6/03/2016
	Q&A What's the Right Thing to Do Here?	6/03/2016
	Q&A When Will the Grieving End?	6/03/2016
	Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me?	6/03/2016
	Q&A Am I Making a Federal Case Out of a Misdemeanor?	6/03/2016
	Q&A What Direction Should I Take?	6/03/2016
	Q&A How Did He Cheat With Someone He Hates?	6/03/2016
	Q&A Should I Expose Them?	6/03/2016
	Q&A Why Doesn't He Talk About Previous Relationships?	6/03/2016
	Michael & Melinda's Mentor Video	6/01/2016
	Q&A Am I Avoiding the Pain?	5/26/2016
	Q&A Why Does Samuel Not Offer a Perspective for Us?	5/26/2016
	Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Stay?	5/26/2016
	Q&A What Can I Do About My Friends?	5/26/2016
	Q&A Is There Anything to Salvage Here?	5/26/2016
	Q&A Can an Addict Love Unconditionally?	5/26/2016
	Q&A What's God's Plan for Intimacy With Him and Marriage?	5/17/2016
	Q&A How Can We Talk When My Buttons Are Pushed?	5/17/2016
	Q&A What are the Statistics?	5/17/2016
	Q&A Should I Bail Out?	5/17/2016
	Q&A Are Simultaneous Affairs a Red Flag for Addiction?	5/17/2016
	Q&A How Could a Polygraph be a Threat if there is Nothing to Hide?	5/17/2016
	Q&A Does Safety Take Practice?	5/17/2016
	Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Now?	5/17/2016
	Q&A Thought Stopping vs. Head in the Sand. Help!	5/10/2016
	Q&A How Can I Feel Her Love When She Does This?	5/10/2016
	Q&A How Can I Get ALL the Truth?	5/10/2016
	Q&A How Can We Overcome Our Tendency to Withdraw?	5/10/2016
	Q&A Any Advice to Help With the Flooding?	5/10/2016
	Q&A Should We Achieve Full Disclosure Now or Wait?	5/10/2016
	Q&A I Need Confirmation. Should I Leave Him?	5/10/2016
	Q&A Suggestions for a Stalker?	5/10/2016
	Is My Mate Safe?	5/10/2016
	Q&A Am I Addicted to Limerance?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Is This a Double Standard?	5/03/2016
	Q&A What Are Some Next Steps for Us?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Is it Too Late to Start Over?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can I Believe in Myself and the Honest Attempts of my Spouse?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Will This Method of Disclosure Cause me More Harm?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can We Handle This Issue With a Teenager?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can I Move Forward Without Being Forgiven?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Should I Stop Trying to Understand?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can the Betrayed Make Sense from 30+ Years of Deceit?	5/03/2016
	Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Show Initiative?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Will I Always Keep This Wall of Protection?	5/03/2016
	Q&A What do You Recommend for a Polygraph?	5/03/2016
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Betrayed Men?	5/03/2016