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	Grieving Betrayal	8/05/2026
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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can I Encourage Behavior without Bitterness?	11/05/2019
	Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Working on Our Individual Healing and Healing the Relationship?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Did We Start Recovery Too Late after Discovery?	11/05/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Why Can't My Mate Be Honest?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Can You Recommend Ways to Overcome Vulnerable Thoughts and Feelings?	11/05/2019
	Q&A What Do These Forms of Trauma Treatment Actually Do?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Can You Help with My Confusion?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Are We Doing Enough to Heal?	11/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Encourage My Mate to Get Professional Help?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Is It Ever Going to Get Better?	11/05/2019
	Q&A How Do I Co-Parent with Someone I Don’t Respect?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Can You Explain What the LIFE Exercise is?	11/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Get the Safety I Need in Our Recovery?	11/05/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle a Relapse in the Middle of Recovery?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Overcoming Comparison Thoughts?	11/05/2019
	Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment	10/30/2019
	Q&A Is This Level of Detail Healthy for Recovery?	10/23/2019
	Q&A What More Can We Do to Set Boundaries with Family Members?	10/23/2019
	Q&A Do You Recommend That I Try to Convince My Mate to Push through Our Healing and Recovery?	10/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing?	10/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Overcome This Sexual Trigger?	10/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle Divorce When the Affair Partner Intentionally Got Pregnant?	10/23/2019
	Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair?	10/23/2019
	Q&A How Do We Restore Our Relationship with Our Children?	10/23/2019
	Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive?	10/23/2019
	Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist	10/23/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for Navigating Though EMS Online and Harboring Hope Simultaneously?	10/16/2019
	Q&A Why Did My Mate Take the Affair Partner to the Same Places He Has Taken Me?	10/16/2019
	Q&A Do My Sexual Dreams Indicate a Deeper Underlying Problem?	10/16/2019
	Q&A Is My Social Anxiety Normal at This Stage of Recovery?	10/16/2019
	Q&A At What Point Should We Get a Restraining Order for the Affair Partner?	10/16/2019
	Q&A How Can I Be Vulnerable If My Mate Has Only Committed to One Year of Healing?	10/16/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse?	10/16/2019
	Q&A Will I Ever Fully Understand My Mate's Pain?	10/16/2019
	Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison	10/16/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle Problems That Occur Late at Night?	10/02/2019
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for Diminishing or Ceasing Anxiety Attacks?	10/02/2019
	Q&A Does This Ever Completely Go Away?	10/02/2019
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Changing How I View Myself Physically?	10/02/2019
	Q&A Can You Offer Encouragement for Me?	10/02/2019
	Q&A Is There a Difference between Long-Term and Short-Term Affairs?	10/02/2019
	Q&A How Do I Show My Wife I Get It?	10/02/2019
	Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust?	10/02/2019
	Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Lack of Transparency?	10/02/2019
	Q&A Should I Allow My Husband to Choose His Polygrapher?	9/26/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head?	9/26/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Being Honest When Discussing the Affair Partner?	9/26/2019
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing I May Never Have Fulfilling Physical Intimacy with My Wife?	9/26/2019
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing from Suicide after Disclosure?	9/26/2019