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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Taking Recovery Seriously?	7/06/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband Who Is Ambivalent and Distant?	7/06/2018
	Q&A How Can We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy?	7/06/2018
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Us in Our Communication?	7/06/2018
	Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents?	7/06/2018
	Q&A How Can We Get out of This Destructive Cycle?	7/06/2018
	Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust?	7/06/2018
	Q&A Is This Another Form of Justification and Blame Shifting?	6/27/2018
	Q&A How Can I Let Go of My Resentment?	6/27/2018
	Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing?	6/27/2018
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence?	6/27/2018
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery?	6/27/2018
	Q&A Should How Do You Restore a Loveless Marriage after an Affair?	6/27/2018
	Q&A Should I Consider Separation?	6/27/2018
	Q&A I'm Beginning to Lose Hope, Should I Stay or Should I Go?	6/27/2018
	Q&A Do You Really Believe God Created Marriage to Make Us Miserable?	6/27/2018
	Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair	6/27/2018
	The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity	6/21/2018
	Q&A Should We Separate for a While?	6/15/2018
	Q&A Can You Give Us Guidance on Reaching Full Disclosure?	6/15/2018
	Q&A Will the Respect I Had for My Spouse Come Back over Time?	6/15/2018
	Q&A How Can We Protect Our Safety Protocol While Traveling?	6/15/2018
	Q&A Do I Need to Get a Divorce?	6/15/2018
	Q&A Are There Boundaries That Need to Be Followed as an Accountability Partner?	6/15/2018
	Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information?	6/15/2018
	Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope	6/12/2018
	Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage?	6/08/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Additional Resources for Overcoming Gaslighting?	6/08/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair?	6/08/2018
	Q&A What Is the Difference between the ‘Right Person’ and the ‘Right Fit’?	6/08/2018
	Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair?	6/08/2018
	Q&A What Should Our Next Step Be?	6/08/2018
	Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure?	6/08/2018
	Q&A Why Does My Husband Act like I’m the One with the Problem?	6/07/2018
	Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse?	6/07/2018
	Q&A What's the Difference between Feeling Remorse for Causing Me Pain and Having Remorse for Being with the Other Person?	6/07/2018
	Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses?	6/07/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process?	6/07/2018
	Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Want to Leave When My Spouse Is Doing the Right Work?	6/07/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful?	6/07/2018
	Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again?	6/06/2018
	Q&A Can Someone with Self-Awareness and Boundaries Still Relapse?	6/06/2018
	Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do?	6/06/2018
	Q&A Can a Wife Ever Get over Her Husband Having Sex with the Affair Partner in Their Home?	6/06/2018
	Q&A Is Acknowledging and Working on the Unconscious Brain Important?	6/06/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Clean up the Financial Mess His Affair Has Created?	6/06/2018
	Q&A Why Does His Shame Trump My Pain?	6/06/2018
	Q&A How Do I Manage the Feeling That I Will Never Be Enough?	6/06/2018
	Q&A How Can I Protect My Children from Pornography?	6/06/2018
	Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband?	5/23/2018